(Closed) Anyone TTC right away?

posted 8 years ago in TTC
Post # 17
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

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@DaneLady:  Yes, it’s like everyone who got married in May and June have all jumped on the baby train!

Post # 18
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m on the fence here. My fiance and I aren’t living together and we won’t be having sex for another 12 days, 2 hours, and 37 minutes give or take (but who’s counting?) and I totally agree that throwing a baby into the mix of a crazy just-learning-to-live-together first year of marriage might not be the best option if a relaxed, stress-free life is what you desire….

BUT-you’re not asking our opinions on that 🙂 When people say you should wait or spend time alone together, saying “its none of your business” would be accurate but probably not appropriate…I would just say what you’ve said here….you are open to whatever life brings and if it happens to bring a baby, it will create more stress areas in which to strengthen your relationship Smile

Fair warning: the times clear blue monitor tells you to avoid might just be the times you want it the most….I say you’re pregnant within a year lol

Post # 20
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233 posts
Helper bee

We are going to try to start TTC right after the wedding (or perhaps even a month or two before).  FI had a vasectomy approximately 12 years ago.  Even though reversal is an option, it has a very low success rate after 12 years and can take up to two years to even know if it worked or not (not to mention it is 10K for a less than 50% chance of success).  We are going to TTC using donor sperm, so we want to get started right away because we don’t know how long it will take and can’t just “practice” until it happens naturally like most couples.  It has to be highly planned process for us, so we want to start ASAP. 

Post # 21
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1529 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

We plan on TTC right away. Neither of us can wait to have babies!

Post # 22
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

i think we will probably wait about 6 months, but that is only because i know i will need to be REAL drunk to cope with the big 3-0. after that, we agree that we will let what happens, happen. 

ideally it would be great to have an extra few years of married fun, but who knows how long it will take to actually get pregnant, and we both really want to have more than 1 kid, so TTC will be faster than we thought originally, but not immediate i guess.

Post # 23
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

We got married June 9th. We have been actively TTC for about a week now. We have been together for over 5 years and lived together for 4. We are ready. I just hope it happens right away!!!

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