(Closed) anyone wanna ‘throw in the wedding day towel’??

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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4137 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i suggest you take a complete break from your wedding for a week or so. don’t think about or talk about your wedding. it works wonders!

this feeling will pass. every once in awhile, you just need a break.

Post # 4
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489 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Hmmm.  I occasionally want to throw in the towel, and my planning seems about 10x easier than yours.  I second kitzy- take a break!  You just need to regain a little perspective.

Post # 5
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222 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’m already to that point and I haven’t made any solid decisions yet. I’m still playing with the idea of doing a destination wedding just to avoid all that I know is expected of me… but like you, I wonder if I will regret not having a “real wedding”.

Post # 7
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6998 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

yeah im about there – one more month of craziness and it will all be over.

I also suggest a break , i had to do this early on in planning because i was getting way too overwhelmed with things. It really does help!

Post # 8
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7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I was engaged for 14 months and I think I wanted to throw in the towel WEEKLY, if not daily. 🙂  The feeling never really did pass until the week of the wedding.  But, I will tell you – it’s ALL WORTH IT.  I really went back and forth on if we should just elope or not… so much family drama, beyond the frustration of costs, saving money, etc… at one point, we had to really think about WHY we wanted a wedding.  For us, it boiled down to wanting to make the commitment in front of those that were part of our community of love and support.  Perhaps spend some time and think about the WHY of what you are doing – and then go back to that place when things seem overwhelming.  At the end of it all – it’s not about the little details that make a wedding – but about the love you have for your fiance and the step you are both making together.  Hang in there!!!!

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Yeah I’m there right now. I am having a very bad day today, and then a wedding bombshell was dropped onto my lap. Not my own wedding someone elses. It has made me so upset that I am ready to say “F it, lets just go to Vegas.” But I know that I would 100% regret it because I have always dreamed of a big wedding.

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