(Closed) Anyones groom have groomsmen crash at house night before wedding?

posted 5 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

If we didn’t spend the night before together I would have wanted to spend it with friends.  So no, I don’t think it’s strange!  

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I think it’s fine and normal, if that what he wants to do before the wedding it’s fine. I also crashed at someone’s house or hotel the night before the wedding. It’s also great because at least you know everyone will be on time.

The plan is for Fi and his groomman to crash at my condo. I will be at a hotel for that whole weekend so I really don’t care.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Sounds right to me, at like 10:00 am, your house will look like your groomsmen were trying to shield the carpet from the sun with their supine bodies….QVC will be playing on the TV, someone’s cell phone vibrating away in the couch and stale plate of pizza rolls on the coffee table with empty glasses of Shasta and beer.  

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

My hubby-to-be and his three groomsmen are taking over the house the night before the wedding. I had planned on spending the night away anyway, and with our big cross-country move coming up in two weeks, it’s nice for them to have an extra night together being smelly boys.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

So many brides post angry threads here about one or more of their ‘maids not wanting to stay with them the night before, so we know it’s totally normal for the ladies to want a sleepover. Guys should have that same sleepover if that’s what they want.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Nona99:  I love your descriptive writing Nona99

 

It’s totally normal and it will probably happen at my house. We don’t have guest beds, but our friends are pilots and they’re used to sleeping in chairs and bunk beds at crash pads so I’m sure they’ll be fine. 

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Even though we live together I will be spending the night at my parents the night before, that way I can say I left their house before going to the wedding. Our Best Man and his wife will be staying in our guest room for the weekend. FI and I will have a hotel room night of the wedding.

Post # 10
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I have heard of stuff like this happening with several people that I know. One of my friends got married this past summer, her husband was living in a house that belonged to his grandmother. He and the groomsmen spent the night before the wedding in that house. 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I think its normal, I spent the night before our wedding at my parents house with 2 of my bridesmaids. My DH spent the night with those two BM’s hubbies and the rest of the GM’s came over in the AM to “get ready” (aka drink beer and eat bagels?) and the rest of my BM’s met me at the hair salon then we did lunch at my parents house before the limo arrived.

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