(Closed) Apart of me wants to start trying again BEFORE the wedding….

posted 5 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
Member
924 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

No MC here, so I can’t speak for that, but we’ve been trying for 3-4 months now and the wedding is in January. I think if that’s what’s right for you and your FI then go for it.

Post # 5
Member
5110 posts
Bee Keeper

@MrsGrayIndy:  We started trying before the wedding. We had a DW, so it was a big decision, but I thought, what the hey. I want this baby more than anything, marriage to me was just something we did to make it “official” but we felt married several months before we actually were. (We still aren’t pregnant).

Post # 6
Member
139 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

We started trying before the wedding and had a m/c a month before the event. Next month we conceived (on an actual wedding night!) and now we are 9 weeks along and happy 🙂 I say go for it! 🙂

Post # 7
Member
200 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I would suggest talking to your doctor. Be sure you have resolved the feelings over the loss of your previous child and heal before trying again. If you are ready to have the child because you want the child then go for it. 

Post # 10
Member
5480 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Our wedding was in August, and we started trying in July.  I kind of figured it would never work the first try and if it did I wouldn’t be showing yet.  We had originally planned to start TTC in August to have a May baby, so July was our ‘practice’ month… and we’re having an April baby!  I was 7 weeks pregnant at my wedding, and I wouldn’t change it for the world.

Post # 12
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9918 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I would want my wedding to be as fun and carefree as possible…so I recommend waiting until after the big day.  That way, if you want to have a glass of champagne, you can.  If you want to eat deli meat (which is what everyone serves at their wedding, obviously), you can…  

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