Post # 17
@HeLovesDogs: When the three of you hang out do you and Bridesmaid or Best Man talk about the wedding? Or has Bridesmaid or Best Man been talking a lot about the wedding with her? Because honestly it’s rude to talk about a wedding with someone who isn’t invited, so if you’ve committed a faux pas there I’d send her an invite. If you haven’t then just try and get word to her through the grapevine that it’s a small family wedding.
Post # 18
Some weddings are huge massive affairs, and some are smaller and more intimate. Your bridesmaid is welcome to tell her that you are having a small wedding if the topic ever comes up between them again. I really feel that you should proceed as if you never heard this.
Post # 19
Thank you all for the comments, I do feel better. I have never shared my wedding plans with this aquaintance, I am pretty private and don’t like to talk about my plans with people who are invited, much less anyone who isn’t! 🙂 I feel a lot better, thanks for your thoughts!