Post # 1
We are doing invites DIY and although i will for sure put in a RSVP cards im wondering if i really need to include all the other insert cards….accomodation, reception, guest info etc. A little background…. our guests are all from out of town and the reception is in the same venue as the ceremony..just an hour after. I was thinking of putting a card in for our wedding website so that they can refer to that for all their info. what do u think?
Post # 3
I think an insert with your website address on it will be fine. Since all your guests are OOTers you might want to consider putting in a map and general directions in case they’ll need it on the day.
Post # 4
- Wedding: June 2010 - New York Botanical Garden
I am going to have many cards in the invite because we do not have a website, so this is literally the only place where people will get all the info. Will you have an older guests who maybe won’t have access to a computer, or feel comfortable using one? You may want to think about having an insert just for those guests with some extra info on. Otherwise, I think a card with the website should be fine. (be sure to indicate “head to http://www.ourwebsite.com for info on directions, accomodations and any other info you might need” or something like that)
Post # 5
we didn’t use any inserts. just one single piece of paper. it said to rsvp to our website on it. i just really didn’t want to spend the money on lots of paper, plus it’s just paper that people will throw away and that’s a waste. we’re doing everything very informal so i figured it was ok.
Post # 6
It really depends on your guests. If they are mostly out of town guests they’re going to need all that information in some sort of format. If everyone talks alot, word of mouth might be good enough for you. If they’re tech savvy, it might be better to invest some time in creating a thorough website and have one insert referring to the website. Since you are DIY-ing your invites, you could do the inserts just for older relatives who might not check out your website.
Post # 7
I like the wording of this insert:
Post # 8
I would supply a map or a card with directions/accomodations for those who don’t use the web much since you are having many Out of Town guests….
To minimize all of the loose inserts, we chose a design that keeps them together, which I’m sure would be very easy to DIY:
Post # 9
We only had an insert with a map and directions on it. All the other information was on the website.
Post # 10
I, too, wish all those insert cards weren’t necessary but for our crowd, they are. We put our wedding website on our STD and from questions I’ve gotten about which nearby airports and hotels to use, I can tell NOBODY went to the website. I would expect that from the baby boomer and up generation, but not our 30-something-year-old friends!!! Guh. I think I was being too self-centered to really think everybody would take the initiative to see OUR website. Darn!
So, besides the actual invite we will have the RSVP card & its envelope, note about the morning-after brunch location (in lieu of reception card, as we noted reception location on the invite) and an enclosure card entitled “Guest Information” which includes hotels, childcare and once again OUR WEDDING WEBSITE URL! Maybe the second time around will the be charm?!