(Closed) Are bridesmaids supposed to help? and MOH is driving me crazy.. (long)

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 17
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1022 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@dcruz72:  why does your Maid/Matron of Honor know cost of things and who is paying? are you related? did I miss that part?  my Maid/Matron of Honor is my sister and still still doesn’tknow exact costs and who is paying what.

Post # 18
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8686 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m sorry but WHY do bridesmaids have to help? They are your friends…not your employees or coordinators. I see you are having food so I wouldnt worry what your Maid/Matron of Honor says. This just all sounds a bit dramatic and I wouldnt want to be involved at all.

Post # 21
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@dcruz72:  I’ve offered to help in another wedding I was in. However, I have 6 bridesmaids and 3 have offered to help with things and 3 havent done anything. I dont feel any negative way about it and my Fiance definitely wouldnt say anything bc I just see them as my close friends who I want standing by my side. I wont take the other 3 up on their offers to help bc we all work full-time and have lives so I dont want them to spend a whole weekend or Saturday helping ME for MY wedding. 

Post # 22
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8686 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@dcruz72:  also, please dont let anyone make you so frustrated to the point that you change YOUR plans for YOUR wedding. You need to talk to her and she needs to take a few steps back.

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