(Closed) Are men really insecure about toy use?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Is toy use allowed in your relationship?
    He's completely open to it : (64 votes)
    91 %
    It's forbidden : (2 votes)
    3 %
    I have to hide mine : (3 votes)
    4 %
    Only is used together : (1 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 2
    326 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    Not that I know of…I mean I’ve only been with 3 guys but each of them have been really cool with using toys. The guys in my past 2 relationships have bought me toys.

    Post # 3
    1417 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

    I dunno.  My Darling Husband doesn’t care if I use it alone, and he really likes when we use it together.

    Post # 4
    6290 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2014

    Not to my knowledge; I’ve never been with anyonbe who had an issue with it, OH included. If anyone DID have an issue, I would tell them where to go; for me, masturbation is healthy and normal, and I’ll be damned if someone dictates what I can and can’t do with my own body.

    Post # 6
    552 posts
    Busy bee

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    Ama14:  that is kinda weird..not speaking because she was doing somthing that i be 99% sure that he does himself!.. my fl has bought me a few toys over the years..no biggie..he orders online though because he is a pretty shy guy..your hubby sounds awesome btw!

    Post # 9
    4594 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We don’t have any yet, but Darling Husband keeps suggesting it, so he’s definitely open to it!

    Post # 10
    8940 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

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    Ama14:  Any time toys have come up in a conversation with a man, they have always been gung-ho about it. Maybe there’s more to your friend’s story, like maybe he caught her with BOB* after she’d been telling him she had a headache every night? Or if he’s religious or super old-school maybe he was just shocked that women do that too? Not sure. No guy I’ve ever been with (or talked about it with) has been opposed.


    * Battery Operated Boyfriend

    Post # 12
    9544 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

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    Ama14:  Werid! My husband certainly doesn’t have an issue toys. My ex didn’t either. Neither do any of the guy friends that I’ve discussed it with (only a couple). So I always assumed most guys were down with it. Women tend to be more interested in sex if they have it more ofter/masturbate more often, so why wouldn’t a guy be down?

    Post # 13
    413 posts
    Helper bee

    I swear I have a broken vagina because I don’t get anywhere without at least a bullet. Fiance is totally happy and willing to help me out in that area. As long as I feel good then he feels good. 

    Post # 14
    860 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    My husband bought me most of mine. He introduces new things every now and then. He definitely has no issue with me using them with or without him.

    Post # 15
    715 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

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    leximarti082:  Yup me too. Fiance usually insists I being it out to play ahaha.

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