Post # 1
It’s a bit late to be worrying as wedding is less than two weeks away!! I’ve attached a montage of my two junior maids and my two grown up bridesmaids and also me in my wedding dress…
.I’m so scared the bridesmaids will outshine me I feel so dumpy …like my curves are in the wrong places …. I am boxy and short with small hips …so envious of hour glass types!!!
when I put our photos against each other I feel like I look weird..in my head I thought chiffon bridesmaids , lace bride and different necklines would compliment and contrast but when I look at it I feel like I just look dumpy and flat chested! of course I’m so happy my bridesmaids look beautiful i want them to feel amazing …. it’s me being insecure I guess…
think I just need my mind putting at ease….. everyone lives away from each other so I’m not going to know until the day how it will all look Together. What do you think? I’m hormonal and I guess I’m after some reassurance! Xx
Post # 2
I think you’re just finding things to worry about as your wedding date gets closer. It’s the stress talking! Everyone will look great, especially you.
Post # 3
You do not look “dumpy” at all! The dresses are lovely. You are the bride; no one could outshine you even if they wanted to.
Post # 4
For starters, j would definitely know you are the bride and a beautifully figured one at that. Your maids look good, but not nearly as elegant as you look based off these pics. While you may in reality be short, I can’t really tell in these pics, I’d say honestly that dumpy never entered my mind when viewing. You look great!
Post # 5
I think it’ll look great all together! I love that it’s not “matchy matchy.” Looks very elegant.
Post # 6
You look amazing, and NO ONE ever outshines the bride, because the bride is always the only gal glowing with pure joy on the big day. Sure, everyone else is happy for you, but you’re the only one getting married!
Post # 7
I think you’ll look beautiful. Don’t worry about it.
Post # 8
- Wedding: April 2017 - Hogarths, Solihull
I looked at those pics and my eyes went straight to you. I think you outshine them no problem 🙂
Post # 9
Thanks for your sweet comments…. It’s made me cry! I’m an emotional mess In the run up to big day. Dam you hormones!! It’s not that I don’t want my maids to look good… I SO do!! I’ve had such a bumpy road with my dress fittings its …and my imperfections are …I guess magnified in my mind. You’re all too lovely … Thank you x
Post # 10
You look gorgeous. It will all come together. I know its very stressful, I am going through the same thing now. Everyone will definitely know who the bride is, and once all the elements of the wedding come together, everyone will remember it as your day 🙂 so no worries!
Post # 11
You’re just stressed! Your dress is totally flattering and you look amazing. Your bridesmaids will in no way will outshine you. I think it’s the opposite, honestly, which is how it should be. Good luck with the final two weeks!!
Post # 12
Totally agree with samira86:
Take some deep breaths, and organize your time, with some breaks if you can!
Post # 13
I love your dress and the detailing on the straps and bodice are beautiful. Your bridesmaids look fabulous too and everything flows. It’s the hormones for sure!
Post # 14
- Wedding: November 2016 - Muhlhauser Barn
You are the bride! no will ever outshine the bride! You look gorgeous! Deep breath bee!!! xox
Post # 15
I clicked the wrong thread and thought I was reading about helping someone pick a bridesmaid dress, so I was looking at your picture (which is TINY because I’m on my phone) and I was like “these all look the same except the one in the middle. It looks way fancier.” So, I think you’ll be fine.