(Closed) Are people really this dumb and have no commen sense??

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
519 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Sorry you have to deal with this! Some people really don’t have any common sense, and everything is about them and no one else. You have tried to be nice and inclusive, so don’t worry about them anymore! They are ultimately responsible for their own behavior, so just act how you should towards them and try to let what they do/say go. I know this is so hard though! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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520 posts
Busy bee

Well,no offense, but it sounds like future bil/sil are a little classless and lacking in some common sense and social graces…….  

Perhaps they have not attended many weddings or just don’t know the protocol….that sounds so stuffy, but you know what I mean.  Don’t let them get to you.  You invitedher to have her hair done and she declined….that’s sufficient.  She isn’t hosting the wedding, so she certainly does not get to make her own guest list……..

Post # 6
Member
520 posts
Busy bee

@mrskisstobe: Lol. she sounds like a crazy woman.  Or just child like, immature and spoiled……all because she isn’t getting her way.  Sorry, that sucks!!!!!!!!

Post # 7
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592 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

They sound…. special.

Post # 10
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1730 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

@mrskisstobe:  Well, on one hand, you invited her but it’s no loss she won’t be there ๐Ÿ˜›

I’d just try to take solace in the fact you will probably only have to intereact with them on holidays, after the wedding, and try not to expect too much of them – they don’t seem to be capable adults, so don’t treat tham as such, or expect adult behavior.  Kill them with kindness, so you are blameless, and face palm later, when it’s just you and your Fiance. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 11
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1553 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Am I missing something?  This is your FBIL’s wife?  How could she not know anyone at your wedding?  Isn’t your FI’s family and her husband’s family the same family?   So she will be there with her husband and all her inlaws?  How could she not know anyone? 

Post # 13
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3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@mrskisstobe: Maybe, knowing they’re typically one to two hours late, you should’ve put the time as one to two hours EARLIER on THEIR invitations/info!!!  

So, it probably would’ve been mean, sneaky, devious, and evil… but, hey, at least they’d be on time or early! ๐Ÿ˜€  

 

Seriously, though, I’m soooo sorry you gotta deal with this!  Hopefully they’ll be on time for your sake and peace of mind!!!!!  Good Luck!!!!!

Post # 15
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593 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@mrskisstobe: Oh bee, I feel for you.  I’m marrying a man with a brother too.  Everything is a competition.  He’s younger than my fiance, but the same age as me.  His girlfriend is five years younger but so freakin’ special.  I constantly have to hear how wonderful the two of them are, I could throw up.  

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