(Closed) Are people really this rude?! (vent)

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
2641 posts
Sugar bee

What the heck!  Maybe this guy is jealous.  (Hey, happens to guys too.)  Maybe he does want to steal you away, but realizes that won’t happen, and is now digging at you?  Otherwise, it just seems strange on one hand he seems interested enough to say he wants to steal you away, but then says things to make you feel bad.  (Perhaps trying to start a fight??)  Once I had a bf and his friend liked me,.  I could tell he would try to get us into fights.  If we had an argument, he would tell me something like, “Don’t let him get away with that.”  Then tell my bf “She’s being crazy dragging this on.”

Post # 4
Member
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

People really are that rude, but I’m not convinced they’re oblivious to it.  I think it comes from their insecurities and their desire to create them in others.  I’ve had to deal with people like this, I’m not good at brushing it off.  But, I do it.  I just smile and walk away.  That’s what I’d suggest you do if you have to deal with him again.  If you show that it bothers you, it only fuels the fire.  Its sick that people act like that! 

Post # 5
Member
3125 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Sounds like he’s just trying to be jerky.  You could try my favorite way of deflecting haters in public… I just say, “Jealous?” and give them a wink or a raised eyebrow and walk away.  I have nearly gotten beaten up for that! heehee

Post # 6
Member
3125 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

PS: i desperately want to post a picture of someone I took a picture of after I said “jealous” to them – she grabbed me to pull me in and intimidate me, so i snapped her picture. she was INCREDULOUS and i have the funniest photo ever. I just don’t want to get sued or something, haha. It’s hilarious b/c I am so not a fighter. I’m more of a flower child hippie, but some people are just too easy to rile up to pass up.  I say have fun with those clowns and don’t let them bug you.

Post # 7
Member
196 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Post the picture!!!  πŸ™‚

Post # 8
Member
139 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

It sounds like he was interested in you. When you weren’t falling for his advances he stooped to trying to cause trouble between you and your boyfriend. When THAT didn’t work he decided to insult you to try to cover up the fact that he was interested in you.

Post # 9
Member
348 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

post the pic!! hha

Post # 10
Member
2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

He’s either 1) jealous of your relationship & was trying in a pathetic way to get you to notice him or 2) just plain stupid & likes to get people riled up.

I think I’m going to vote on #2 πŸ™‚

@ Melissa – that is HILARIOUS! You should totally post that!!! hahahaha. Will you teach me your ways, oh wise one?

Post # 11
Member
5822 posts
Bee Keeper

What an ass.  Seriously I’m surprised you didn’t resort to physical violence!

Post # 13
Member
1232 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

That reminds me of pretty in pink when the preppy guy likes the pretty girl, but she totally blows him off (b.c he’s a jerk) and when she starts dating the preppy guys buddy (who is actually nice) The preppy guy starts talking all kinds of crap to his buddy about how she’s nothing blah blah blah. He was totally just jealous. End movie recap. Sounds like the buddy of your man is jealous. Forget him your man is with you for a reason!

The topic ‘Are people really this rude?! (vent)’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors