(Closed) are there any other nestbees not TTC?

posted 10 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
1518 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

we aren’t. 

I have so many friends having babies it has got me kind of wanting to but we are waiting. My husband is in school and we are going to wait until we he is finished, we are moved back home closer to our families, and it a better spot financially. 

Post # 4
18627 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

My husband and I aren’t TTC either.  He just turned 25 and I’m still 24.  We want to work on getting settled in our careers, decide where we want to live, and work on our relationship more before getting babies!  I want one though for sure!

Post # 5
2360 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - New York Botanical Garden

I am so with you!  We definitely want to wait for a few years.

Post # 6
967 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

We’re 30, have been married 2 years and have 4 kids.  I think we’re pretty much done for awhile if not altogether!

Post # 7
3871 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yeah, right now we are not TTC but in 6 months… I don’t know. I’m 27 and DH is 28. So I want them somewhat soon. I hope to have kids by the time I’m 30.

Post # 8
1221 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

We’re not TTC. Maybe w/in the next year, given I can work out my menstrual issues and find a steady job. If not, well then we’ll keep on waiting.

Post # 9
1801 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

We’re not TTC either.  We’re not ready yet (finances, insurance, school/jobs) and we’re young.  We want another 4 or so years.  Although a few months ago I had some bad baby fever!

Post # 10
403 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Me me me!  We’re not young or financially insecure but still not ttc….yet….i think.

Post # 11
7768 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

We thought we were going to, but we decided to wait. 

Post # 12
324 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m 31 and still not TTC.  If it happens (which it shouldn’t), I’d be totally fine with it….just not “trying” just yet.

Post # 13
2373 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

We aren’t- I’m 25 he’s 30. I just made a career change and have about 2 years left in my program. It would be really difficult to add a child to the mix. We’re just not financially there yet with student debt/mortgage

Post # 14
2143 posts
Buzzing bee

Nope, not trying here either. Ideally I would like to start trying by the end of next year, but realistically, itll probably be another 2-3 years. I’m 23 and DH is 25 and we’re still working on school and career paths. I’d like to be done having babies by 30 and we are thinking we’d like to have two not too close together, so I want to get the ball rolling. Plus I have had baaaaad baby fever for over a year now. I’m past the “enjoy being married” part since we’ve lived together almost 2 1/2 years, married over a year. I’m still very happy to be married to my DH, but I feel we’ve had our “couple” time already! But that’s just my biological clock buzzing I think

Post # 15
1093 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: Private home

We aren’t either – I’m still in school and DH wants to be settled first.

Instead we have a furbaby – and as rita rudner said “We were longing for the pitter-patter of little feet – the dog is cheaper and has more feet!”

Post # 16
7774 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

We aren’t. We need to wait at least another year. Moving halfways across the globe while pregnant or with a baby is not the best idea. We just want to enjoy being married first!

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