Post # 1

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Helper bee
I seem to have noticed that a lot of us are ttc, which is awesome– babies are wicked cute! i’m wondering, though, are there any other nestbee’s like me to who are not ttc at the moment? since i am a bit younger, and its my hubby’s first time living away from the parents, we’re waiting on the baby part for awhile (i’m 25, and i’d like to wait at least until i’m 29/30). Is anyone else like me?
Post # 3

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Bumble bee
we aren’t.
I have so many friends having babies it has got me kind of wanting to but we are waiting. My husband is in school and we are going to wait until we he is finished, we are moved back home closer to our families, and it a better spot financially.
Post # 4

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Honey Beekeeper
My husband and I aren’t TTC either. He just turned 25 and I’m still 24. We want to work on getting settled in our careers, decide where we want to live, and work on our relationship more before getting babies! I want one though for sure!
Post # 5

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Buzzing bee
- Wedding: June 2010 - New York Botanical Garden
I am so with you! We definitely want to wait for a few years.
Post # 6

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Busy bee
We’re 30, have been married 2 years and have 4 kids. I think we’re pretty much done for awhile if not altogether!
Post # 7

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Honey bee
Yeah, right now we are not TTC but in 6 months… I don’t know. I’m 27 and DH is 28. So I want them somewhat soon. I hope to have kids by the time I’m 30.
Post # 8

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Bumble bee
We’re not TTC. Maybe w/in the next year, given I can work out my menstrual issues and find a steady job. If not, well then we’ll keep on waiting.
Post # 9

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Buzzing bee
We’re not TTC either. We’re not ready yet (finances, insurance, school/jobs) and we’re young. We want another 4 or so years. Although a few months ago I had some bad baby fever!
Post # 10

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Helper bee
Me me me! We’re not young or financially insecure but still not ttc….yet….i think.
Post # 11

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Bumble Beekeeper
We thought we were going to, but we decided to wait.
Post # 12

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Helper bee
I’m 31 and still not TTC. If it happens (which it shouldn’t), I’d be totally fine with it….just not “trying” just yet.
Post # 13

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Buzzing bee
We aren’t- I’m 25 he’s 30. I just made a career change and have about 2 years left in my program. It would be really difficult to add a child to the mix. We’re just not financially there yet with student debt/mortgage
Post # 14

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Buzzing bee
Nope, not trying here either. Ideally I would like to start trying by the end of next year, but realistically, itll probably be another 2-3 years. I’m 23 and DH is 25 and we’re still working on school and career paths. I’d like to be done having babies by 30 and we are thinking we’d like to have two not too close together, so I want to get the ball rolling. Plus I have had baaaaad baby fever for over a year now. I’m past the “enjoy being married” part since we’ve lived together almost 2 1/2 years, married over a year. I’m still very happy to be married to my DH, but I feel we’ve had our “couple” time already! But that’s just my biological clock buzzing I think
Post # 15

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Bumble bee
We aren’t either – I’m still in school and DH wants to be settled first.
Instead we have a furbaby – and as rita rudner said “We were longing for the pitter-patter of little feet – the dog is cheaper and has more feet!”
Post # 16

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Bumble Beekeeper
We aren’t. We need to wait at least another year. Moving halfways across the globe while pregnant or with a baby is not the best idea. We just want to enjoy being married first!