- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
Ok, I know I should probably just bring it up with him, but there hasn’t been a good time for it to be discussed directly, but I think there are more signs coming from the bf that he’s thinking about it.
The other day I calculated back to the first day we actually met 14 years ago (and became friends) and then was like…we have a ton of annviersaries- april x, july x, september x…and he goes “when would you like another…warm weather or cold weather?”
His friends have mentioned marriage to me when he’s not around (maybe they are trying to feel me out).
Our parents got together for my birthday celebration and our moms talked for hours without paying us any mind – they get along great (and have met for the first time like 6 months ago now.
When we were talking about friends getting engaged i said they’d been together for 18 mos and he said “obviously he is thinking about getting her a ring.” (We’ve been together for eitehr 11 months or 1 year and 3 months depending on what counts as our anniversary date).
I am always at his parents house when they have a family function – the only other SO there is his sister’s husband (no boyfriends of the other 20 something ladies) – i’m 28.
I’m really crossing my fingers this happens sometime in 2011.