(Closed) Are these signs that a proposal is coming??? Or am I overanalyzing (as normal??)

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Sounds like he definitely wants you to be in his future! Now you just have to sit back and let him do the work! This is the hard part, but it’s worth the wait. πŸ™‚

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

All signs look as if they are pointing to YES!  Now the hard part is just relaxing and waiting for it! πŸ˜‰

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

 I think these are positive things and you should be thrilled BUT they are way to subtle to get your hopes up about a specific day. I went through this a few weeks ago and accidentally convinced myself that it was it.. and it wasnt   i was CRUSHED.. beyond belief crushed. and although there were some pretty convincing hints.. they were honest coincidences and my SO just being nice and sweet and reassuring… and when I realized it wasnt the proposal, I cried, I couldnt hold it in and surprised myself about how heartbroken I was over it. FOR NO REASON! He felt terrible, I felt terrible.. big big mess.

So ya be so happy and thankful that there are future talks happening but PLEASE dont make the same mistake as me and get your hopes up TOO TOO much πŸ™‚

Good luck!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I feel like your are over analyzing things. You say your birthday is coming up, so maybe he was simply thinking of jewlery for your present. It’s good he is talking about the future more and very good he’s talking about it as when not if, but me and my Fiance were doing that maybe 6 months in, didn’t get engaged until a year and a half in. He will do it when he’s ready, you will know its coming when its coming, right now it feels like you’re just searching for signs cuz you don’t want to wait.

Post # 8
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Helper bee

He is going to propose eventurally. I would tell him that you don’t want to move in until you are engaged though because then you at least have that locked down. I think those are all positive signs.

 

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

I think these are good signs, but I’d be surprises if he pulls the trigger on it in the very near future. Generally, men are VERY obvious about it (either to you or one of your friends/sisters/mom). It won’t be a “Do you like jewelry?” It will be a “Do you/does she like white gold cushion cut?”

Besides jewelry is pretty much expected for an engagement, so I don’t think he’d ask if you liked jewelry. It’s probably a necklace or bracelet, or maybe even a promise ring or something. I don’t think the signs are pointing to “no”, but maybe more like a “not yet.”

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Yes, I think it is coming!!  Keep us posted!!

Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

He is on his way there, but at his own pace.  Try to just enjoy the ride now.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@mrssoontobeh:  it is SOOO rediculously hard!! and crazy how some days you are CONVINCED all the signs point to yes and other days its like.. meh it will happen.  I cant wait for updates from you! I hope it happens for both of us soon so we dont need to look into little hints and drive ourselves crazy anymore!

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Sounds like he’s getting there! Congrats and enjoy this time of calm before the storm. haha.

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