(Closed) Are we still invited? Confused?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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3461 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Could he be playing it somewhere else?  I used to play an online game on my laptop.

Seems early to stress out this much (and assume no wedding/rescinded invite) based on missing one call and an unannounced visit.

Post # 4
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1506 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’d go to the wedding as planned if I were you. They invited you and you rsvp’d. If they had really called to uninvite you (which I doubt), but never made contact, they should expect you to come.

Post # 5
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491 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I would most certainly go, first and foremost.

But with it being a good friend of your husband… I would call the Fiance if you have her number. I’m assuming the male is your friend as well, since he is close with your husband. The curiosity would kill me, I would want to know what was going on.

Post # 6
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3048 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I think you’re probably still invited. The scenarios could be by chance and could mean nothing. There are a lot of possibilities, but I wouldn’t think that you’re not invited.

Post # 7
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3048 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I think you’re probably still invited. The scenarios could be by chance and could mean nothing. There are a lot of possibilities, but I wouldn’t think that you’re not invited.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

When my Fiance plays on his PS3, nothing can move him from the couch (well, you know what I mean)…I wouldnt take that as he wasn’t answering your Fiance specifically. Also, he might have been signed in but that doesn’t necessarily mean he was actively playing it…?

I wouldn’t stress about it. Give it a day or two and have your Fiance call or text him again. 

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I would probably send anothe text, “Hey, just checking to make sure you’re okay since you didn’t answer my call or return my previous text.”  Other than that, I would assume you’re still invited if nothing negative has happened between you.

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