Post # 1
As a post based on yesterdays “holiday” LOL, I am curious:
Do you like to be the one that does most pleasing ? Is it 50/50 in your relationship or are you more on the recieving end mostly and let him lavish you with attention ?
I am more of a giver. I will perform acts on my Fiance but am not much into him “going down on me”. I always hear my girlfriends talk about how amazing it is but i honestly don’t find it so. I enjoy having him inside and i love pleasuring him which really turns me on.
Am i the odd duck ? LOL
Post # 3
In the spirit of Too Much Information…
I very much enjoy pleasuring FH… Problem is I have an oddly small mouth AND I have TMJ so I can’t last long enough while giving oral to FH to finish the job because it hurts me. So I’ve gotten pretty discouraged and find that I rarely do it because I feel like it’s pointless… It makes me feel pretty terrible though because he “takes care” of me at least 4-5 times a week.
Post # 4
@BHB0526: Can I make a Too Much Information suggestion? Handjobs with licking. Most men want more sensation at the head anyway, so full on sucking is only a small part of my “performance”.
Post # 6
@MexiPino: with my Fiance that wouldn’t work so well. He likes to go in all the way if he can which is not the most comfortable thing for me but the sounds that he makes due to how good it feels to him makes it worth it and he can’t handle doing that for too long anyways.
Post # 7
I prefer equal but I’ve been in a lot relationships where that wasn’t even close to happening, for various reasons on either side. So I voted other, because I prefer an equal exchange but I can be a taker or a giver on occassion.
Post # 9
Usually equal, except in oral, where I am 100% giver. I just don’t like getting it. He has other tricks I like.