(Closed) Are YOU a good mother!?

posted 7 years ago in Parenting
Post # 3
2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

haha I love it. 

Post # 5
6009 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

Do I give him enough affection?  Am I smothering him? Is he normal?  Is he falling behind? Will he get some girl pregnant in high school?  Is that a smear of his poop on the coffee table?

Lol! So funny, but so true…

Post # 7
2731 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I’m not a mother, and I probably won’t be for several years but even I notice these things.

A friend of mine had a baby a couple years ago and when she was a few months old, a group of us went out to dinner and my friend’s mom came along to help watch/feed the baby while we ate so her daughter could socialize for the first time in months. I later told a male friend about this and he was confused. He was like “Wait…she’s not breastfeeding?! What a terrible mother!!” I’m not exaggerating at all, that’s almost literally what he said to me. I was like “Wow, how can someone judge someone’s parenting ability based on whether or not they breastfeed?” At this time, I don’t plan on breastfeeding my future children and I’ve already been dreading telling people that because I’m well aware that people will tell me I’m a bad person. Arg. Just makes me mad to think about.

But this article did give me a little chuckle 🙂

Post # 8
1750 posts
Buzzing bee

@Juliepants: OMG you are a wonderful writer! People can be apeshitcrazy over their beliefs of right and wrong.

Post # 10
588 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

So funny! I’m the type that just lets all the little “suggestions” roll off my shoulders but it does get annoying after a while! Parenting is just one of those things that you really CAN’T mess up unless you are abusive. The type of person who insists that their way is the only right way most likely does the same thing with politics and religion. We’re ALL great parents, I’m sure. 

Post # 11
1691 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@CarolinaCola: what amazes me is when people judge and say that shit without realizing it may or may not have been a choice.  It is a mothers choice and right to decide if she will or will not do it, and formula is not exactly going to kill your newborn.  I couldn’t breast feed…so I guess I’m a bad mom too!!

Post # 12
1750 posts
Buzzing bee

@Juliepants: lol. I was really impressed and thought you were a professional writer and very well spoken. Oh well, you are still a smart woman that reads interesting things. Good enough for me:0) It was a very good article, thanks for sharing.

Post # 13
100 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I didn’t realize there was a parenting forum on WB until I saw this post. I cant tell you how much I enjoyed that article. Considering the amount of truly bad mothers that sadly do exist, i think it’s about darn time the rest of us stop beating ourselves/eachother up. Well said!

Post # 14
927 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

how very very true

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