(Closed) Are you a hugger?

posted 8 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Are you a hugger?
    Heck yeah, bring em on! : (28 votes)
    37 %
    Um. Don'ttouchmepleasethanks. : (14 votes)
    19 %
    Depends on who it is : (33 votes)
    44 %
    Don't really know : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    I think I’m a hugger, but it depends with who. I don’t go up to random people to hug them, lol!

    Post # 4
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    297 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2018 - The Grand Old House, Grand Cayman

    Mrs. Mouse is not a hugger.  I threaten her with hugs to terrorize her.  πŸ™‚

    Post # 5
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010 - Ceremony - First United Methodist Church; Reception - My parents' house!

    I’m not a hugger, I get really nervous. Sometimes I have to hug people, and I neuroticize over it all the time when I know it’s coming. I have personal space issues, though I have no problem invading Mr. Scissors’ personal space. :p

    Post # 6
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    208 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2010 - Claxton Farm

    I’m not a hugger at all. It is actually running joke in my touchy-feely theatre dept. “Oh, I’d hug you if you liked it!”

     

    Post # 7
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    14186 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    It really depends on who it is. My mom, Darling Husband, yes, okay with hugs. Even some of my closest friends (hello or goodbye kind of stuff if i’m not gonna see them for awhile) but usually i hate space invasion. Except of course with Darling Husband. I invade his bubble all the time

    Post # 8
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    35 posts
    Newbee

    I used to never be a ‘hugger’, but I am starting to try and hug people more often.  My family avoids physical contact at all costs, but FI’s family is all about the hugs, I probably get six hugs in the course of a 2 hour dinner with them!  At first I was like, well this is weird…but now I think it is just another way of saying, ‘i love you and you’re special to me’ so I try and bring the hufest to my family, who generally freeze up until I let go! 

    Post # 9
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    6597 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I’m a big hugger – all my friends are huggers – we just like to hug!

    Post # 10
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    1684 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    I’m weird. I’m not really a hugger, but I am a cheek kisser hello/g’bye.

    Post # 11
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    2280 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I’m comfortable hugging people like cousins, aunts and uncles, and church family members. But I’m not a touchy-feely person at all. The other person has to initiate the hug. My friends and I hardly hug, and I freak out if my sisters try to play with my hair or cling on to me. I need mah space!

    Post # 12
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    32 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: May 2010 - Morningside Inn

    I love to hug! Love it love it love it!

    Post # 13
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    3332 posts
    Sugar bee

    I’m actually a pretty big hugger.  My family are all huggers–we’re huggy/kissy folks.  Maybe it’s cuz I’m Italian?  I think it was kind of a shocker for The Hubs when he hung out with my family because he’s not big on it.  In my family, you hug and kiss everyone when you arrive at their house/party, etc/ and then do it all again on the way out.  It’s just how we roll.

    Post # 14
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    i’m a total hugger! wasn’t always as a kid but definitely am now πŸ™‚

    Post # 15
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    depends on who it is. hubby i hug all the time, my siblings and mother nope, doesnt happen. my sisters children (who are all adults now)  not so much, they are older now and less emotional but my brothers children (who are teens) never finish a phone call without saying i love you so we hug all the time.

    Post # 16
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    7779 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I am totally for hugs, but I don’t like random people hugging me. I dont really even like to be touch at all by people. I’m just weird about it.

    Except kids. I will hug the crap out of little kids.

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