Are you a nagger?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Are you a nagger?
    Yes, I can't Help it : (54 votes)
    44 %
    No : (37 votes)
    30 %
    Yes, but only because my SO makes me : (31 votes)
    25 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5977 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I’m pretty sure I’m not. Darling Husband is actually really awesome about doing things that I ask him to do, and he’s more of a neat freak than I am. We’re a good team with the household chores, so I’m not a huge nagger b/c there’s nothing to really nag about!

    Post # 4
    Member
    233 posts
    Helper bee

    I am bossy.  I’m openly bossy. I embrace my bossy!  On our first date, I told him my biggest flaw is that I am super bossy, but it isn’t something that is ever going to change.  I know what I want, and I want it my way, and if it doesn’t go my way, I’m not happy. I’m not “easy going.”  Fortunately for me, he is okay with my bossy attitude.  He does things the first time I even mention it (even without making a formal request) so I don’t have to nag too much.  However, I’m not above it!

    Post # 7
    Member
    4194 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

    No, but I warned Fiance last night- with 38 days to go, if I ask him to do something, I might bug him about it- not that I don’t think he’s going to do it, but because I want to get it off the list!

    Post # 8
    Member
    9824 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    Kind of. My husband is a huge procrastinator so if anything important needs to get done I’ll hound him until he does it. He thanks me later when he doesn’t have problems arise due to his “I’ll do it tomorrow” attitude.

    Post # 10
    Member
    4150 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I don’t nag my Darling Husband (luckily I’ve found a man who only needs to be asked once!) but he tells me I nag my younger sister lol.  I just worry about her so I’m constantly telling her information that I think might be useful to her and warning her against things that could harm her.

    Post # 11
    Hostess
    16213 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    I try really hard not to because I know it makes my husband crazy, but it’s hard not to every now and then!

    Post # 12
    Member
    3265 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    I said yes, but really, I’m not sure if I’m a total nagger or just a little annoying sometimes. I really try not to be, that’s for sure. SO is just a procrastinator. A huge one. “I’ll get to it” is his biggest line, and I call him out on it frequently. Just unload the dishwasher already, would ya!? Sealed

    Post # 13
    Member
    3773 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    I will own it, I am a total nagger, but only when Darling Husband makes me:)

    Post # 14
    Member
    645 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    No but I can be pretty passive aggressive at times in order to get him to do things which is no better.

    Post # 15
    Member
    9672 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @DCSquared:  I don’t nag because I don’t have to with my Fiance.  He’s so great about doing things he says he will do. 

    He actually has a system (this makes me so hot for him, I swear) that anything and everything we talk about that needs to get done, he writes down on index cards.  He even carries them around with him so he can be reminded.  He showed me his “system” when we first met. 

    He never forgets anything.  All I have to do is mention something, he writes it down and then it gets done, sooner or later.  I never have to mention it again or worry about it, which is really cool to me. 

    I think it’s one of the things that made me fall so much in love with him to start with, haha!

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