(Closed) are you allowed ? *married bees.

posted 6 years ago in Dress
  • poll: do you think he would be against you selling your dress ?
    yes : (15 votes)
    17 %
    no : (17 votes)
    20 %
    he wouldnt really care : (55 votes)
    63 %
  • Post # 3
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    696 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Im not married yet, but I dont htink my FH would care. He’s a man, to him it is just a fancy piece of clothing and the memories and sentiments of the occasion are not tied to it. I, on the other hand, might have trouble parting with it 🙂

    Post # 4
    Member
    5977 posts
    Bee Keeper

    I think he would let me make my own decision on the matter. I’m in a bit of a different situation though…I wore my mom’s dress, so I wouldn’t dream of selling it. 

    Post # 5
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    3000 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    I don’t see why Darling Husband would care, honestly. He’s not a very sentimental person for material things.

    As a side note, the question in your post headline and the question in your poll are worded where they’ll have different answers, so you might want to re-word one.

    Post # 7
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    1093 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    A husband that won’t “allow” his wife to sell her wedding dress? I don’t see why it would be so sentimental for her to keep it and why? I do get why brides are attached to their wedding gowns but in all honesty why would a groom? Does he save his tux/suit? I think not, unless it’s a suit he owns it usually goes back to where he rented it from.

    My husband is one of the most opinionated men I know but if he ever told me I wasn’t “allowed” to do something my head would snap and give him a glare I might get whiplash!!!

    Post # 8
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    10453 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2014

    I doubt he’d care at all!

    Post # 9
    Member
    1548 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I don’t think he would care at all, but I know I would never sell it. Even though I haven’t even worn my dress yet, I can’t image someone else wearing it. 

    Post # 10
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    1318 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Mine told me “absolutely not!!!” He told me I’m gonna have to find an excuse to wear it again, even if I’m just playing dress up at home. He’s sooo silly. 

    Post # 11
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    515 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    He paid for it and picked it out, so I guess technically it is “his” dress. I don’t think he’d stop me from doing (I wouldn’t anyway), but he’d probably be hurt if I did.

    Post # 12
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    317 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    @IllbeMrsB: My husband is one of the most opinionated men I know but if he ever told me I wasn’t “allowed” to do something my head would snap and give him a glare I might get whiplash!!!

    Amen to that!

    But back to the OP’s question…I don’t think my husband would care if I sold my dress. He’s not sentimental like that….and it doesn’t fit me anymore anyway!

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