(Closed) Are you an LDR virgin?

posted 9 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 3
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

My relationship with my husband was my first and only LDR!

Post # 4
4385 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

i had one previous ldr before my Fiance, but i was 18 and it was only ld for about 2 months before we broke up…

Post # 5
2408 posts
Buzzing bee

heh, how potentially salacious, mr. bee!

this is my first and only ldr, and ironically, my first long-term serious relationship. figures it would be with a boy i don’t see that often. hahaha

Post # 6
2204 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

haha, I was wondering about this thread, Mr. Bee!

It was my first and only LDR, and I’m so glad it’s over! (the long distance part, not the relationship part!) 🙂

Post # 7
4464 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Fiance and I were LD for two years while I was in college.  It was my first long distance relationship and I am GLAD the long distance part is over.  I wouldn’t be able to do it again.

Post # 8
134 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Gosh, I guess I am! Or was. I didn’t even realize. This is my first LDR.

Post # 9
572 posts
Busy bee

LOL, those words could mean sooo many things.

I have never been in a LDR. I give MAJOR props to all the bees that have been in one or are currently in one. I dont think I would have the strength.

Post # 10
560 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Hahaha… I was like this applies to me!  

umm, yes to both. lol


The LDR it ALMOST over.  Wedding is in March!

Post # 11
7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

No. This is my 3rd relationship that had at least some time spent as LD.

The summer between freshman and sophomore year of college I dated a guy who was in NC while I was in MI; then later my college boyfriend and I were long distance for our second semester of dating (we dated my sophomore year through 6 months after graduation) while I was in France, studying.

The former was relatively functional; the latter was when our relationship went sour, he was manipulative, jealous, controlling, basically a jerk. And I didn’t get it. Hah.

Post # 12
3979 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I’m a LDR hussy! lol this is my second one…

Post # 13
279 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010 - Victorian Gardens of Two Sisters

Mr. Doxie was actually my second LDR.  The first did not end well at all… I found out my ex was still living with his “ex” girlfriend!  I started to get suspicious once I noticed he was always the one to visit, not letting me travel to see him.  In hindsight, he was gross anyway  : )

Long distance is definitely tough.  But, I think it’s definitely worth it with the right partner!

Post # 14
323 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Not quite, the guy I was with before the bf I was at university with. We went home for summer break and it was very difficult to see each other, we went 5 weeks, and during that time I felt his attitude about us change. By the time we went on holiday together with his family towards the end of summer, he said on the first night “this holiday is make or break for us”. Some holiday! I spent my whole time worrying and trying to carry on as normal. He broke up with me on the last day of the holiday. I got on really well with his family as well.

It just wasn’t meant to be, and I’m over all that now but at the time it felt my world had ended as it came out of nowhere. I’m glad I’m not with him now, he’d do my head in! We’re still friends though.

Post # 15
2680 posts
Sugar bee

I only had one LDR and that ended up with me being married to him 🙂

Post # 16
2344 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I am a serious LDR hussy – I’ve been in several! This one is so, so different though – a totally different level of commitment and trust that has made it so much easier. My previous LDRs were much more clingy, needy and stressful. I miss Fiance a lot but there are no trust issues, and with the wedding in the not too distant future, I know there is an end date, which keeps me sane. I think LDRs are hardest when you don’t have a plan going into it.

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