(Closed) Are you and your FH/SO sexually monogamous?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: What level of sexual monogamy do you practice with your spouse?
    My FH/SO will only sleep with me for the rest of time! : (749 votes)
    89 %
    We have the occasional threesome. : (6 votes)
    1 %
    We participate in group sex but no swapping or swinging! : (4 votes)
    0 %
    We are swingers and/or swappers. : (1 votes)
    0 %
    Although we are sexually monogamous now, we're open to swinging/threesomes in the long run. : (50 votes)
    6 %
    We haven't discussed swinging but the idea intrigues me. : (16 votes)
    2 %
    My husband is into cuckholding. : (6 votes)
    1 %
    My FH/SO and I are in a open-relationship sexually (can sleep with anyone we want). : (9 votes)
    1 %
  • Post # 3
    388 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    of course we are

    Post # 4
    8444 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    My Fiance and I are monogamous, but we’re old and unhip lol.

    Post # 5
    5956 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    @kateisstoned:  Nope, both of us would go angry rhino if we were with someone else in that way.

    Post # 6
    8471 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    We are completely monogamous and would NOT have it any other way.

    Post # 7
    1293 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2018

    @Nona99:  +1

    I’ve done a lot of strange things in my past lilfe, but in my marriage I want to be monogamous and so does he 🙂

    Post # 8
    2095 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    For me, the point of marriage is to choose to only sleep with my FH the rest of my life. But if others feel like they know what is best for themselves then whatevs. It’s not for me, but I don’t judge. I might raise an eyebrow but what do I know??

    Post # 9
    930 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We would never not be.  Open relationships, etc are not for us.  But to each their own.

    Post # 10
    4495 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    100% monogamous. I will never change my thoughts on that issue. If my Fiance does, well then I guess we aren’t meant to be.

    Post # 11
    9950 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We’re 100% monogamous and very happy this way.  Neither of us is cut out for an open relationship, especially in this marriage, not ever gonna happen.

    Post # 12
    9181 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    We had an open long-distance relationship for a couple years in college while living across the country & globe from each other – but now that we live together, we’re definitely monogamous.  We’re too old and boring for swinging, and we’re both uncomfortable with the potential effects it could have on our relationship.

    No judgement though!  Sounds like fun if you can make it work 🙂

    Post # 13
    1332 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    My SO and I were talking last week, and he had mentioned that he had gone to a festival that is town many many years ago, and I was surprised (bc it is NOT his ‘thing’), I asked why? with who? blah blah blah.  It was with an ex, so no big deal!  I asked a few more questions from there, convo ended.  (We are very open with each other on these topics if prompted by the other, etc).

    A few moments later I asked him why he never asks me too too much about my past?!  He said ‘the thought of you with anyone else makes me ill, so in my MIND I am your first, your only and your last.  I am happy in my own, little ignorance that way!’

    I then asked ‘soooo, threesomes or swinging is off the table?!’  His response ‘YES!! Definitely…why, are YOU interested?’ My response was no, for the exact same reasons…I/we cannot IMAGINE each other with anyone else.

    Personally, that is enough drive in our relationship to keep it monogamous.  More power to those whom can be ‘open’ to it though!!

    Post # 14
    1406 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    you better believe it!

    we may joke about things like that but it doesnt go any further. 

    Post # 15
    4371 posts
    Honey bee

    Monogamous ourselves. Don’t care what other people do. 


    Post # 16
    110 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Definitely monogamous. I would go mad if my man slept with anyone else and I know he feels the same. 

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