(Closed) Are you and your husband always together?

posted 8 years ago in Married Life
  • poll: Are you and your husband always together?
    Yes : (226 votes)
    55 %
    No : (184 votes)
    45 %
  • Post # 32
    493 posts
    Helper bee

    you sound just like us! except my SO has to travel for work sometimes so he will be gone for 3-4 days a month

    Post # 33
    3372 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    We don’t really go to clubs or bars in general, unless you count the bar of a restaurant, which I do not lol. That kind of thing pretty much stopped after we graduated college. I do go to a wine bar with some girl friends though, but its not really the typical bar atmosphere lol.

    Post # 34
    2202 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

    DH and I are usually together – we work together (I see him on breaks), work out together, and have a lot of mutual friends to go out with. There are times, however, when I will take a weekend or night away with the girls and we will go dancing and such. DH goes to sporting events with other friends, and I like my alone time.

    Post # 35
    6256 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @melonseeds:  +1 on all fronts!

    Post # 36
    1603 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    No. We are not always together. We both realize that we need to have relationships outside of each other in order to be normal adults. He needs guy time and I need girl time. There are things I enjoy doing with my girlfriends, like going line dancing, that he doesn’t enjoy and there are thing he likes doing with the guys, like working on cars, that I don’t particurarly enjoy.

    Having said that, we make sure that we always put our relationship first. If we go a couple of weekends where we haven’t spent as much time together as usual, one of us will say something like “hey lets just have an us day this weekend. Don’t make any other plans” and we will just hang out the two of us.

    Post # 37
    762 posts
    Busy bee

    @Bunny_the_Bride:  my Dh and I are the same way and I love it. he’s all so older (almost 9 years) and so was ready to settle down. Unless we are working or one of us is out on a “date” with our daughter we are together. He does lots of work around the house and outside but mostly we are together, we don’t ever go out with friends and we both are happy with that.

    Post # 38
    6583 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2010

    No.  Although I am quite fond of him, I have no need to hang out with him constantly.  Tonight he is going to an alumni networking bar night- no interest in going to that AT ALL.

    Post # 39
    862 posts
    Busy bee

    Dh and I have some very different interests. He is a huge outdoors person, he loves camping, hunting, fishing, shooting, trapping, and I don’t mind these things but they don’t top my list at all. I am more than content to go once in a while, but it certainly does not bother me that he goes by himself/with other people.

    We both have alone time, and not separate friends persay, but we do hang out with friends separatly at times. We have activities that we do alone and it works for our relationship.

    I have been in the type of realtionship where you are together all the time, and I honestly cannot handle it, it makes me feel smothered.

    Post # 40
    3263 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    We are together most of the time, including driving to and from work, I drop him off in the morning since we work close to each other. We have a lot of friends but we mostly hang out with them together. We certainly have our own time sometimes but for the most part we are together.

    Post # 41
    484 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    We spend all of our free time together. We already hate being away from each other while we are at school/work.

    We get along great, he is the funnest person to hang out with, we like all the same things -why would I need to hang out with anyone else? lol

    Plus we have all the same friends since we went to the same elementary/middle/high school so whenever we hang out with friends its always together. We did go to different universities, but never hang out with anyone outside of school.

    I LOVE being with FH, in fact, since we started dating almost 8 years ago, there were only 5 days that we weren’t together and it’s because I went on vacation the first month we started dating.

    Post # 42
    7960 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @Bunny_the_Bride:  we are both retired so, yes, we spend all of our time together.  i am more social than he is so i do often go out with just the girls.

    Post # 43
    1451 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @Bunny_the_Bride:  We arent always together but mostly yes.  He has his occasional boys weekends and I have my girls weekends.  But its once every few months.  We were both only kids so space from eachother is nice here and there.  Would I rather spend day with DH or a best friend? 100% DH always. 

    Post # 44
    457 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I can’t imagine spending all my time with my DH. I need my girl time whether it be going out to the bar or something else. I don’t understand ppl that need to be with their DH’s all the time and feel the need to ask their SO if they can go out with friends or whatever.

    Post # 45
    848 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    @Bunny_the_Bride:  We spend most of our time together. During the week we don’t really socialize after work. I might go to the gym, or we will visit with our parents, but usually we are home. He works saturdays so I have the afternoon to myself to hang out with my girlfriends/mom, go shopping or whatever (in turn he has a day off during the week for his “me time”). Saturday night we usually hang out with our friends together, who are all couples as well.

    As for going to the bars alone… I’m past my days of enjoying going to the bars but every now and then DH and his friends will have a guys night and will go to a local pub and I have no problem with it. Sometimes all the girls will get together for a girls night in, or I’ll stay home and enjoy a quiet night at home.

    Post # 46
    3949 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Yeah we hang out alot together.  Most of our friends are married, so when we do go out, it’s usually with couple friends.   It’s alot like how I grew up, I knew on Friday nights, when I was in HS, my parents and their friends were at a local ice cream place.  It was nice, and it is nice to hang out, altho i’m not sure about the same place every.single.friday.night. 😀 

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