(Closed) are you avoiding something?

posted 8 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m avoiding making a decision on bridesmaid dresses. I’m so indecisive, and I know once I say “that’s the one” and they’re ordered, that’s it!. I’m also definitely putting off anything to do with our vows…we’re writing our own, but we probably won’t get motivated to do that until a month or two before!

I found STDS/invitations really stressful as well. I’m SO Glad our STDSs are chosen and being printed 🙂 Invitations…they’re being designed, so luckily I can’t obsess too much about them now.

Post # 4
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75 posts
Worker bee

I have avoided each decision until the last minute – then suddenly I make it one day. Eventually, something strikes you as what you want in each category. Have faith!

Post # 5
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6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Right now I am avoiding everything wedding related!

But I have decided I have to get out of my rut and go see cake bakers on Sunday!

Post # 6
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463 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Our music!  So many choices, so little time to play all of them!

And practicing for our first dance.  We are gonna have them choreographed but now, I’m kinda second guessing myself.  Fiance and I are not really dancers and I’m scared that having our dance choreographed might look really cheesy.

Post # 7
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5263 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

Telling everyone some of the DIY decisions I’ve made. I know I’m going to get a lot of flak for taking so much into my own hands. Our parents would rather we go less creative vendor made budget, I’d rather take my own inspiration to cut down on costs certain areas, and allocate that money to things like venue, etc. 

Post # 8
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6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

ummmm….. no! i’m pretty sure it’s all done. that feels nice to say!

Post # 9
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1060 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010 - Anela Garden Chapel & Japanese Cultural Center, Honolulu

i’m avoiding hotel blocking! it makes me want to blaaahhhh just thinking about it. i tried to pawn the chore off on my mom, but no avail! it’s holding up the invites…ugghh.

Post # 10
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900 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

When I saw this post, I thought to myself: “What am I not avoiding?”  Seriously.

I guess I’m not exactly avoiding, but I will research something, not decide, move on to something else, and then forget what I researched (even when I occasionally take notes).  

I’m like an bride who wants a cool wedding without stressing out about it because I don’t think it’s worth it, but I’m still opinionated!  It’s not really functional lifestyle.

: )

Post # 11
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1897 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Avoiding the officiant!  HAHA…bad, bad virginia!!!

Post # 12
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1313 posts
Bumble bee

lilyfaith… I am 110% with you on this. I want to own the whole thing 🙂

I’m afraid the fam is gonna freak.

 

Post # 14
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5263 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

@gocubbies – we’re on the same page with everything! 🙂 People always seem to think they know better… like, “you don’t want that stress!” um, yes, I do! I think it’s worth it. 

Post # 15
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900 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@lrwedd – yay…we should support eachother!  Most girls on this site make me feel like a failure as a bride (hint of sarcasm, but just a hint).  

Post # 16
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Worker bee

sarahsd – I am totally with you, the exact same way! I feel like a make a “little” progress in each area all at once rather than one thing at a time. but I guess that’s what happens when you have to wait for other people to get to you, etc…to make those decisions.

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