(Closed) Are you counting down?

posted 10 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
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46 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Well I am trying not to count down to christmas…

 

 

!!!! sooo excitied ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 18
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127 posts
Blushing bee

@lizzyflitz:  i am also in he same boat. He knows i want to get married in the fall of 2012 but he hasn’t propose yet. we’ve already gone ring shopping and he knows what i like.

i’m just worry that we may not have enough time to book  the venue, band and photographer that we want. sigh.

Post # 19
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3997 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’m counting down until Christmas because I think he’s going to do it on Christmas Eve (: don’t want to get my hopes up though haha

Post # 20
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61 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@sillie: I can totally understand your frustration, that’s actually how I found this site. I was originally expecting a proposal this fall. When that didn’t happen I approached him to talk about it and realized that our timelines were er, different. At first I freaked out because it didn’t fit with my “plan” of late summer wedding. Then slowly I let go of the wedding ideas I had in my head. I had to accept that it’s ok if we don’t get the perfect venue, photographer, etc…We will set a date once he proposes and THEN see what’s available. Some days I still get antsy about it but I just have to tell myself it will all work out the way it’s meant to.  I also decided I don’t want a long engagement, six months tops!

Post # 21
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204 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I was counting down until Christmas but just recently decided to fly home (hundreds of miles from where we live now) to be with my family for Christmas.  So if he was planning something I have ruined it now :-/ Im not leaving until Christmas Eve so he can always do it then or I can look forward to NYE.

Post # 22
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’m TRYING not to count down but can’t help it ๐Ÿ˜›

Also I have given myself a countdown of 81 days (until Leap year day) in which I will propose to HIM, if were not engaged by then, so it’s going to be in the next couple of months regardless really ๐Ÿ˜›

Post # 23
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46 posts
Newbee

I am not-so-subconsciously counting down to our third anniversary. I just think it would be pefect. I consider it the date at which I will panic in earnest if nothing has happened yet. However, there is no telling how I will feel by then- it seems like a long way off now, but so did the first two years together! I also like to think we will be open enough with each other so that there is a clear picture of what we want for the future. It’s not knowing that makes me panic. 

Post # 24
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

@DaisyCakes: same here! wooooohoooooooooo! ๐Ÿ˜€

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