- 4 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
I know my title is a little dramatic, but trust me I have a reason. So after stressing about EVERYTHING I finally decided to take yours and everyone else advice and RELAX… I stop worrying about small things.
Well yesterday I get a call from our officiant.I assume he wanted to go over last minute details, ooh boy was I wrong.
This is a little about what our conversation was lIke.
“Hello may I please speak with Ms. V”
“sure it’s me how can I help YOu?”
“I’m sorry but I am calling you to Inform you I won’t be able to officiate your ceremony”
“Excuse me?? “
“unfortuanaly I have a personal emergency and will not be in town”
I took a deep breath and asked “but I assume you have someone that will be replacing u”
“Unfortuanally ( as soon as I heard that word I felt like someone kick me in the stomach) I don’t, everyone is already booked for that day”
“ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME? WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO DO NOW< ITS A WEEK AWAY?”
“You can always look for someone in Craiglist” I reakky felt like I wanted to KICK HIM.
“I already gave you a deposit, it’s crazy I won’t be able to get someone in such short time”
“Im really sorry but I wll returning your deposit as soon as I can”
“ofcouse ur returning it and I want it TODAY”
“I can do it during next week”
“NO I want it today, I’ll have someone pick it up today”
and I click… I was soo upset I literally felt in my bed and started crying like a baby.
FI is always a more calm and relaxed guy, he try talking to me and hugging me , telling me everything gonna be alright.. BUt I still wanted to pick a fight. We ended arguing and I told him I was cancelling the wedding. ” he told me that I was over reacting , Which made it worst. He ended getting mad at me and telling me to do whatever I wanted he didn’t care anymore… I literally cried my self to sleep…
We’ll today we talked and he told me we should just go and get married at the court on Monday….I agreed so We will be going on monday morning to get married, sucks my family can’t make it because my dad has dialisys on mondays and well they live 2hrs away and FI sisters live about 4hrs aways…It has to be monday because of FI work…
We still having the party on Sat like planned on parents back yard…
SO I was thinking that maybe what we can do to incorporate our parents is to write our own vows and exchange them on Sat infront of our families I was thinking we can also do the exchange of rings?? I not sure, what do you ladies think?? is this crazy???