(Closed) Are you going to ask your BMs to wear their hair a certain way?

posted 11 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Are you going to ask your BMs to wear their hair a certain way?

    Yes, I'm going to give them specific instructions (french twist, low messy bun, etc.)

    Yes, I'm going to give them general guidelines ("up" or "half-up half-down" etc.)

    Nope, they can do whatever.

  • Post # 3
    14181 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    That’s what I did! They all chose something different. The last thing I was worried about on the morning of my wedding was if their hair looked good, lol. That’s why we had pros doing it =]

    Post # 4
    1426 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    Well, I’m paying for her (only have one) to have it done, but as long as it isn’t way more formal than mine I don’t care what she does…

    Post # 5
    4765 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

    I’ll just let them do whatever! I may try to hire someone to come do everyone’s hair, but I’ll let the girls choose what they want!

    Post # 6
    1001 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    No.  They are not the same person, so I don’t want them to look the same.  I want them to look like themselves!

    My bridesmaid’s sister was INDIGNANT that I was not making them wear the same hairstyle.  She kept putting her face in her hands and saying how awful pictures were going to look.  Ha!  She also make her bridesmaids go tanning!

    Post # 7
    1523 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I am not going to give much instruction because they all know their own hair the best. I want them to go with a style that they like and look good with. My one bridesmaid has super curly hair so I want her to choose a style that works for her etc

    Post # 8
    472 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2010 - Ladder 15 Restaurant

    I don’t care about the girls, but the boys have to be clean-shaven!!

    Post # 9
    4383 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I think I am just going to let them do whatever. One of my girls has short hair, one has really long, and then my sister (MOH) has chin length. I think it would be impossible to have any guidelines that would fit all of them lol!

    Post # 10
    572 posts
    Busy bee

    I think letting them do whatever they want is the best way to go so in the end everyone is happy.

    Post # 11
    2702 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    im paying for the girls hair to get done, but i dont really care how they want it… we all have similar taste and i want them to feel comfortable. 🙂

    Post # 12
    162 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I am also letting my girls do whatever they wish. I believe they will all be different also, Maid/Matron of Honor all up, Bridesmaid or Best Man1 braid, Bridesmaid or Best Man2 short, all down.

    Post # 13
    2403 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    i’m paying for the girls to get their hair done and letting them do whatever they would like..they all have great style so i know they will look fab as always 😀

    Post # 14
    1250 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I have 6 bridesmaids and they all have totally different hair…it’d be pretty unreasonable of me to expect them to all have the same hairdo. They are paying for their own updos, as well, so even more reason to let them choose how they’ll have it done!

    Post # 15
    831 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Even though I’m paying for all the girls to have their hair and makeup done, I told them I like the half up look, but if they choose to do something else – I’m totally cool with that too!

    Post # 16
    11324 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I have 3 (MOH and 2 BM). Two of them have very thick shoulder length hair, and the third has curly hair all the way down to her butt. I have no idea what all three of them could pull off to look the same anyways 🙂 They can do whatever they want, but knowing them I’d guess all three of them will just wear their hair down, and that is fine with me. 

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