(Closed) “Are you going to marry me someday?”

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
249 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Sure, which day were you thinking?


And this sounds similar to my FI’s “You’re going to have my babies one day, right?” I think he feels a little concerned because I never ever talk about babies…

Post # 4
2025 posts
Buzzing bee

Do you ever ask him this question out of the blue? Not as a response, but just as a “hey, right back at ya!” How does he respond?

Post # 6
111 posts
Blushing bee

@kay01: How about “Are you going to ask someday?” or “Ask, and I’ll let you know.”

Post # 7
304 posts
Helper bee

my boyfriend says stuff like this all the time. and it’s kind of annoying. he says “you’re gona be my wife one day” or “you’re gona have my child one day” etc… i just want to yell out “make it happen already! quit talking about it ask me! show me that you mean it!” sory i think i’m having a meltdown haha

Post # 8
600 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2006

How about “not if you never ask me!” or “if you don’t ask me soon I sure won’t!” or “YES OMG!!! Is it Facebook official now!?!?!?” and then put on an invisible ring and jump up and down and talk about how beautiful it is.

Oh man, I apologize for the sarcasm in my responses… it’s just so tempting!  I would totally crack if I were you.  

In all honesty, I think all the responses above are great.  There’s really no right response since it sounds like it’s become a special inside “joke.”  Maybe you could use the question to start a timeline discussion?

Post # 9
50 posts
Worker bee

How about a simple, “Yes, I would be proud to be your wife someday”, with a smile and a kiss.

Sounds like your guy is ready for marriage too, and he may be a bit anxious about your response. Or he may want reassurance that you love him and that you think highly enough of him to want to marry him. Guys sometimes take things literally and if they don’t get a “yes” or a “no”, they may be left wondering what exactly you meant. Wink

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