(Closed) Are you having a “send off”?

posted 7 years ago in Reception
  • poll: Are you having a send off?
    Yes : (9 votes)
    24 %
    No : (28 votes)
    74 %
    Other : (1 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    4336 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    our reception is at a hotel, and part of the deal is Fiance and I get a nice suite for the night! so…in our case at least, a “send-off” would be a bit anti-climatic! Haven’t thought much about it yet. I was assuming we would probably just slip out.

    Post # 4
    2161 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    No.  I don’t know how late we’ll stay, and we aren’t going on our honeymoon until the day after, so it would seem odd to me to do in my circumstances.

    Post # 5
    7695 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    We had a sparkler send off and left on a boat. It was one of the most fun (and picture worthy) parts of the night!

    Post # 6
    1041 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    We are doing sparkers too! But no limo my mom will be drivin gus in her Jeep Liberty 🙂

    Post # 7
    369 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    My wedding is at a B&B and the barn turned reception hall is literally right across the driveway from the cottage we’ll be staying in.  As such, a regular send off wouldn’t really work BUT I still wanted to do the sparklers.

    Instead of doing it as a send off, we’re going to do a special last dance on the patio of the reception hall with all the guests gathered around us in a circle while we dance to our runner-up first dance song.  I think the pictures will turn out awesome and it won’t be awkward with everyone lining up to watch us walk 10 feet.

    Post # 8
    1920 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    I plan on closing down my wedding reception so there won’t be a send off.

    Post # 9
    6572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2010

    We stayed at our venue that night (B&B), so we just said our goodbyes and when the last guest left went up to our room.

    Post # 10
    542 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We are doing sparklers 🙂

    Post # 11
    5572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    We aren’t doing any special send off. I’ll toss the bouquet and we’ll be off!

    Post # 12
    689 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    We are renting a hunting lodge for our ceremony/reception/place to stay/honeymoon afterwards so there wont be a normal send off. However the closest hotel is like 30 minutes away so at 10 or 11 Ill be having a shuttle come get the older and/or wasted people. So as a send off to them we are going to release sky lanterns. I can’t wait.

    Post # 13
    10287 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011

    The resort that we’re getting married at includes our wedding night suite as part of our package so having a send-off only to turn around and come back seems pointless to me. More than likely 11 o’clock will hit and we’ll all just leave. Quite the exciting conclusion, I’m sure. 

    Post # 14
    3241 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    We had sparklers~which I loved! After we ran through the sparklers twice, we thanked everyone for coming to the wedding and kinda mingled with the guests until everyone left.

    If you want a send off go for it. Just because you don’t immediately get into a car and leave, doesn’t mean you can’t do sparklers, bubbles, rose petals, or what ever you want. 🙂

    Post # 16
    450 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Our venue has to be cleaned up by midnight, so we will leave about 10pm (if anyone is still there) go to the hotel and change clothes… 5 minutes away, the come back and help clean up, after all it is our wedding party.

    Ceremony is at 3:25pm on the patio, reception immediately following inside the building, potluck dinner, dancing and fun.

    We are getting married on a Sunday, so not sure how many will actually hang like they would if it had been a Saturday.

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