(Closed) Are you having your Mom in the delivery room?

posted 6 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I had my mom both times! When it came down to it my mom was so much more help then Fi was. If i were to have any more babies my mom would still be in the room. 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I probably wouldn’t because I’ll likely swear and my mom would be mortified. 🙂  I think when that time comes, I am going to ask my SIL to come be with me, along with Darling Husband.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

I had an emergency c-section with DS so noone but DS’s dad was there BUT had I had a normal delivery she would have been, and had been in the room while I labored.

This go round she’ll definitley be here!

My mom is pretty much my best friend, she keeps me straight when I act dumb, and is incredibly encouraging & affirming in the things I’m capable of doing.

Darling Husband is all of these things as well, but I feel that having them both with me here at home, with no meds, would be beneficiary.

I guess it’s just that next to Darling Husband she’s my go to person.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Dear God, no!  I want my husband there, and if we decide on a Doula, of course she would be there, but no way in he** would my mother or his be in that room!  I love my mother, I love his mother.  But to me that’s something that should be shared between a couple without other family members and friends being brought into it.  They are more than welcome to sit in the waiting room or to visit after the baby was born.

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Nope, my mom was not, my husband was.. I soo would not want her in there with me

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I’d like to say it will be just me and Darling Husband, but realistically, I’m gonna want my mommy!!!!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Bent Creek Winery (Livermore, California); Reception: Family Residence (San Ramon, California)

@Miss Apricot: I totally agree. If other women want to have their moms, sisters, aunts, friends, etc. in the room, more power to them! But that’s just not me at all. Darling Husband and I are both in agreement that we want it to be just us plus any key players (like the doctor or midwife). 

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Hell no!  🙂

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

There’s is a good chance I will never need to make this decision, but I would only have Darling Husband in there. 

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@heathaah: The second time I was going to go with out my mom and I did just that I screamed “I want my mommy” The nurses were so nice to go get her for me lol…

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Not prego but just gnna answer..

 

NO! lol

 

 

Post # 15
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Buzzing Beekeeper

No. My mom and I don’t really have that kind of relationship. We’re close, but she’s a very… private person and really raised me to be the same way. Honestly last time it was fine with just my husband in the room, but my family wasn’t there. This time it would be nice if they could at least be there at the hospital when she is born.

ETA: I know I totally just said “When she is born” lol. I guess it’s no secret that I’m hoping for another girl!

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

@heathaah: You sound like me!!

PS I’m not prego

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