Post # 1
So I am pretty much indecisive about everything in life and this has made planning our wedding really hard! Every day I second guess all of our choices, and have changed my mind so many times I think that my FH is about to take over the planning all the way lol, are any of you like this and how do you get past it?
Post # 3
YES!!! it was awful trying on dresses… i bought one dress at DB and the next week i returned it and got another one. i bought 4 veils before i chose 2… i got over being indecisive by purchasing a lot of things and picking one thing and returning the rest. in everyday life? its difficult… im soooo indecisve but i try to just make a choice and not second guess it.. sigh. its so hard being indecisvie!! plus, i google a lot of things to make sure im making the right choice haha
Post # 4
LOL I’m indecisive about some things. Colors and invitations seem to be my sticking points for our wedding. But most of the time I don’t care! Ha!
Post # 5
I changed my colors 3 times
My dress 3 times
my maids of honor dresses 6 times…yes I said 6
my transportation company 2 times
my ceremony site 4 times
my centerpiece vases 5 times
my shoes 3 times
oh I could go on…..so don’t feel bad
Post # 6
me too! I have changed my wedding colors almost 7 times and have gone thru so many ideas! I finally decided on a few colors today and just had to tell myself that I cannot change them. I also informed one of my bridesmaids that has been helping me out that i decided and to not let me change it and remind me why i was chosing these and why i cannot change. Its so hard cause you just want everything to be perfect. Ive learned that I just need to make the decision and then not think about it cause the more i think about it all the more I want to change and tweak everything
Post # 7
I am SO indecisive about everything. The only thing I haven’t changed my mind on is the venue, but everything else has changed multiple times. I bought a dress and sold it, then wondered if that was a good idea (I still don’t have my dress LOL). I thought that I wanted a horse and carriage, so I paid for that, and now the logistics just aren’t working out and I just want a limo.
I tell you what, wedding planning is for the birds. It’s making me feel like a crazy person!
I keep showing new things to my fiance and he says, “didn’t we already pick something out for that?” u…g…h…
Post # 8
It is good to know I’m not alone! I think you are right mrsloafy42, I need to just stop thinking about the decisions I have already made. Easier said then done for me, but I should try. OCD+ Indecisiveness = pain in the butt wedding planning
Post # 9
Yes and no. I come up with ideas … then I get bored.
But when it comes to choosing between paper or plastic, it’s an easier decision.
Post # 10
I am usually really decisive about everything but I can’t seem to decide on anything for the wedding…
Post # 11
Hayle yes. I cannot decide on an engagement ring. Changed my mind several times about who I was going to marry (thank goodness for M). I am glad that we’ve both agreed on a short engagement or else I will change my mind a million times before we’re married, you know?! I like every wedding dress I’ve seen (most of them) every venue, every color scheme and most of the tablescapes. I am crazy.
Post # 12
i’m extremely indecisive. lucky for me there are enough people in my life who are willing to make decisions for me! or i will make a decision, spend hours and money completing a project, and then change my mind. by then it’s just too late and i live with it.
Post # 13
I am horrible about choosing a dress. i have changed my dress at least 5-6 times and I think I am about to do so again. The ladies at the bridal shop are so great tho, they just chuckle at me but I feel so bad about it that any time I want to try on a dress, I don’t go there, I try it on somewhere else so I don’t have to bother them more than I have to lol