i wouldnt say i get jealous, but like others have posted, i get judgemental (which in a way, is a form of jealousy if you really think about it bc you are judging someone’s actions saying "if you WERE in that situation, THIS IS how I would do it.." (does that make sense? lol)
On to my jealousy/judgemental story, yes I did get jealous/envious when one of my closest gf’s got engaged in 2006, a few months leading up to that, she practically gave her then Fiance (now husband) an ultimatum to propose to her! which, I didnt agree with AT ALL. (on top of that, my Boyfriend college sweetheart (at the time) was getting ready to move back to his homeland across the world….so yea, you could say i was jealous of her situation bc we had been dating the same timeline…)
BUT THEN, she planned the wedding and I thought that it was dumb that she was hell bent on getting married within a year (there was a lot of stuff going on in their lives in which having a long engagement would have probably been the best option for them. school, etc.) So that was frustrating bc on one hand I feel that she gave an ultimatum to her Fiance, was hell bent on having their wedding within a year, and then on the other hand, complaining about all the stress that it caused as a result of it.
and then, the kicker…about a year or so after their marriage, she said she regreted doing everything so early and "rushing into marriage" ! WTF?!?!?!?!?!? Nobody was holding a gun to your head to get married within the timeline that you wanted!
geez, love her to death, but sooooooo effin frustrating!!!! lol.
oh, and nowadays I do get jealous when i see other girls OVERLY oggling my man (soon to be FI) in that way…just disrespectful! Like seriously, yes, I know my man is extremely good looking, but that doesnt mean that you need to be staring at him like you are about to jump up on it! Seriously take a look and keep it movin! Sometimes I want to rip girls’ eyeballs out….HAHHA
ok bees, so apparently I DO have a jealousy problem!! HAHHA