(Closed) Are you marrying an older man?

posted 11 years ago in 20 Something
Post # 92
5842 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Im 25 and my Fiance is 33, we’re 7.5 yrs apart.

Post # 93
860 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Fiance and I are less than a year apart.

Before Fiance, I dated a guy who was about 5 years older, and I was far more mature.  When we stopped dating for good 4 or 5 years ago, he was 27, and acted like a college freshman.  I found out a few months ago that he got married!  I feel bad for his wife! (but who knows, maybe he finally grew up)

So anyway, I’d agree that age is just a number (as long as you aren’t, say, a 16 year old dating a 30 year old or something!)  🙂

Post # 94
713 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

My Fiance is 8 years older. I am 25, he is 33. We only notice when we talk about childhood and I don’t know a lot of the shows he watched and music he listened to. Really though, he can party harder than me any day. He said that someday he will be taking care of me.

Post # 95
2865 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

We’re almost exactly 10 years apart. Our birthdays are both in the middle of June.

When a song comes on the radio he’ll say “I bought this album my senior year of college” and I’ll say “I got it for Christmas in 8th grade” – it’s pretty funny.

Post # 96
1987 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

My BF is 9 years older than me…..but I’ve always been into older guys.

Post # 97
281 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

My husband and I are 22 years apart in age. I’m 22 and he’s 45. I was 21 and he was 44 when we first met. I met him online and fell in love with him right away! Check out my profile to see a pic of us!  My parents were very shocked when they found out about my husband. Age for us has never been a big deal. We’ve just focused on being in love and making the most of our marriage. I don’t think anyone should not marry or even date someone b/c of age. Just b/c he’s older doesn’t mean he’s a BAD person. I am so glad I went with a more mature person for a husband. I had dated guys my own age and they were just into stupid stuff like going out and getting drunk. Not my husband! We spend A LOT of time together and we love it!

Post # 98
248 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

OMG it is so good to read these bees. My husband is 13 yrs older than me thu you can never tell the age difference in person but ppl sometimes give me SUCH a hard time i have learned to say “you do not know us” or something like that OR just ignore it. My parents have 12 yrs in between them but that is not Y they do not get along it is in the personality and the connection you make with the other person not the age difference!!

Post # 99
41 posts
  • Wedding: September 2011

I don’t know if I’m marrying an older man?? I am 26, he is 32.  Does that qualify?? haha

Post # 100
144 posts
Blushing bee

I am 26 and my fiance is 39.  I never notice or think about the age difference.  He is still a kid at heart and I don’t think that will ever change. 

Post # 101
3 posts
  • Wedding: June 2010

I am 29 and my fiance is 46. We have been together for 6 years. my parents had me young, my mom is 51 and dad is 54. we all have a great time together! he doesn’t act like he is 46! love him to pieces! 

Post # 102
1003 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I don’t have much of an age difference in my relationship, we are a year apart. But my best friend is currently dating someone who is 45 and she is 24. I often tease her by saying, “He isn’t robbing the cradle, you’re robbing the grave!” haha

Post # 103
36 posts
  • Wedding: July 2010

Yep!! My man and I are 9 years apart, hes 34 and I’m 25!  Age aint nothing but a number!!   

Post # 104
570 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I didn’t read the other posts, but I do agree with JustLikeHeaven, in saying that the two of you don’t appear to have that age difference, so in my opinion it really is just a number! I’m not marrying an older man, but he is marrying an older woman by about 5 years. I was born in July of 1983 and he was born in October of 1988. We are happy and in love, and the only grief we ever received about it was from his friend Shon asking if I was “robbing the cradle”, lol. He got hell for that remark, and we don’t really appear to have a huge age difference either.


Post # 105
252 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

My Fiance is 8.5 years older than I am, but it doesn’t seem like it at all in terms of looks OR maturity level!

Post # 106
937 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m 24 and my Fiance is 35. I met him when i was 18 and he was 29 and started dating just before my 19th. Mum was a bit worried at first but now she LOVES him.

First photo was taken at mums wedding which was in 2007

second was at our engagement party which i think was about october-ish 2008

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