(Closed) "Are you nervous"

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2494 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@mrsotg:  congrats! Imgetting a lot of that too. The only thing that makes me nervous is the fact that people think I should be nervous. Good to know being excited is normal too.

Post # 4
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3183 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

We weren’t nervous.  I think people asked him more about being nervous than me!  Congratulations!

ETA – also, I loved that episode of SATC, because I’m pretty sure that would totally be me. 

Post # 5
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31 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Ugh that was kinda annoying for me as well. However, I actually did get pretty nervous on the actual day, hoping everything went smoothly and that there wouldn’t be any mishaps, I wouldn’t trip on my dress walking down the aisle, etc.  But being asked if I was nervous didn’t help because it just reminded me that I was, after I kept trying to get my mind on other things! Grrrr.

Post # 6
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1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

When my brother was getting married, my FSIL was pretty relaxed about the whole thing for months, right until we were in the hotel room getting ready. About an hour before the ceremony, she turned to us and said “Holy crap! I’m getting married!” It took a while to sink in and, when it did, it wasn’t so much nervousness as excitement (but it still took a whole year of being engaged for her to realise it!).

Don’t stress about what you’re feeling. Everyone feels differently about their wedding 🙂

Post # 7
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2876 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Im so jealous! im so nervous i feel sick, its not about being with my fi forever, but the people watching me etc. i feel stressed now and i have a way to go. the only thing making me feel slightly better is that we arent having the 300 person wedding my fi wanted…but for me 100 is a lot!

Post # 8
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705 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I would say (yes, even a year out) that while I agree–I’m not nervous about getting married–I’m excited and look forward to the whole shebang, I am and probably will be a bit nervous about everyone having a good time and about other things that I can’t control happening, like vendors showing up and being awesome.  I’m sure it’s probably going to be fine, but still, I worry.

Post # 9
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2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@mrsotg:  That’s a good thing! You’ll be able to enjoy the day….tomorrow!! have a wonderful wedding 🙂

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