(Closed) Are you okay with fiance getting a lap dance?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Are you okay with fiance getting a lap dance?
    Yes, I'm okay with him getting lap dance : (104 votes)
    27 %
    No, not okay, it's disrespectful : (273 votes)
    71 %
    Other : (9 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
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    2089 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I would NOT be ok with this!!! Urghhh 

    Post # 4
    Hostess
    8576 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    The pictures you posted is NOT a typical stripper. In most strip clubs, you are NOT allowed to touch the strippers, at all.

     

    I would be okay witha traditional strip club stripper, I wouldn’t be okay with what you posted.

     

    Post # 6
    Hostess
    8576 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    @SamanthaLovesJames:  The strip club I frequent often is very strict. You aren’t allowed to touch the strippers at all.

    There are private rooms for lap dances, but even in there, they are very strict. Are you to keep your hands to your sides, and the girl will grind on you, but not grope you.

    Post # 7
    Member
    2559 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    @jenilynevette:  So if you mentally removed their hands from the strippers, would that be good with you (I guess minus the right hand of the right pic forking over the cash)? I think I am equally unhappy with my Darling Husband touching them vs. another woman in no clothes rubbing all over him lol.

    ETA: In answer to the OP, nope, I’m not good with that, but to each couple their own.

     

     

    Post # 8
    Member
    9674 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2019

    I would NOT be ok with lap dances, normal strip club ones or the ones like you posted. No way, no how.

    Post # 9
    Member
    4985 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2018

    Nope. Not in a million years.

    Post # 11
    Member
    85 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    I’ve told my SO he can have one on his stag do if they go to a strip club, as long as he cant touch her. I’d gladly pay for it, its just fun and the last he’s ever gonna get off a stripper lol ( and aparently the first, he says he’s never had one before)

    Post # 12
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    2559 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    @SamanthaLovesJames:  Re: your first q, I think it’s directional – he can’t touch her (i.e., with his hands), but she can touch him.

    Post # 13
    Member
    649 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I’m totally fine with it. 

    Post # 15
    Hostess
    8576 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    Could be a regional thing. The strip club we visit is very upscale.

    Most lapdances look something like this – The guy doesn’t touch the girl, and the girl rubs herself all over the guy.

    You actually get thrown out if you touch the girls at all.

    Post # 16
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    140 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Would also be fine with it.  I told my husband this if he was to go to a club on his bachelor night, but they ended up not going afterall.  But, ultimatly, I don’t see it as being a big deal.  For the girl, it’s just a job and it’s not like my husband would have left me for her or gone further than just a traditional lapdance, so I don’t feel threatened or concerned over it.

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