(Closed) Are you okay with your fiance going to a strip club for his bachelor party?

posted 11 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: Are you fine with your fiance going to a strip club for his bachelor party?

    Not at all.

    I'm totally fine with it!

    I'm okay with him going, but no lap dances!

    He can go, but it makes me uneasy.

    Other: Explain!

  • Post # 3
    3982 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    luckily FH isnt a fan of strip clubs, i think the only times he has gone were with me…not that im a fan of strip clubs but sometimes our friends tend to end up there if its been a crazy night…  i just dont really a problem with it.

    Post # 4
    4831 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Fiance has never even been to a strip club. I doubt he’d go for his bachelor party, but if it is what he wanted to do, I’d be totally fine with it. I’ve told him he should go to one at some point, since he’s never even been.

    Post # 5
    4211 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    DH doesnt enjoy strip clubs that much but I wouldnt care if he went as long as he didnt get a lap dance. Unless he was with me of course ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 6
    1373 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I said other – I am totally fine with it.  He is not OK with it – he will go to strip clubs for other people’s bachelor parties, but is very uncomfortable and has walked out a couple of times.  So my being 100% sure no problem is tempered by the fact that it’s not an issue I actually have to contend with.

    He is also not OK with ME going – he has told me I am not allowed to have male or female strippers at my bachelorette party.  Boo!  (but I am going to respect his wishes)

    Post # 7
    1524 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2010


    Post # 8
    1511 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

    I’m fine with it but he has no desire to go to one. At the last bachelor party he went to, he went bar hopping with the guys and then went home when the rest of them went to the strip club.

    Post # 9
    1369 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    im fine with it. he went for an hour, had 2 lap dances. then came back to the casino and gambled all night. i have more of an issue with what he lost gambling, than the hour at the strip club. LOL it was more for his friends to have a “guys night’ out” and typical bachelor party of golfin, boozing, strip clubbin, and gambling.

    plus i went to vegas for 4 days with my girls. he didn’t have a problem with that. why should i give him a hard time about 1 day in town?

    we did make sure to have a conversation about it weeks before the bach/bach party wknd. communication is key ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 10
    1088 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    It wouldn’t bother me, but then again he’s not a huge fan of strip clubs. He’ll go along with friends once in a while when an occasion calls for it. That’s totally fine with me. I must say though, if he was like, “OMG, I love strippers!!! I’m going to spend all my money on lap dances!!!” then we’d definitely have a problem!

    Post # 11
    741 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Nope, I trust my guy enough that if he wants to go out with his friends and have a good time at the strip club, that’s cool with me. I’ve also been to one with him and he bought me a dance, so now I know what all the hubbub is about ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 12
    127 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    Nope. Mine can go on a golf trip to Scotland or a ski trip in Denver or party it up in Vegas. One of his friends had a whitewater rafting/camping weekend for his bachelor party.  This is a new generation. There are many more options than strip clubs and bars.

    He wouldn’t be comfortable with me donning a g-string and dancing in strange men’s laps at my bachelorette party and I’m not comfie with him having strange nude women in his lap. We will be planning fun getaways with our closest friends and having the time of our lives with the people who mean the most to us.  You can definitely have an amazing time minus the strip clubs.

    Post # 13
    61 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I’m not fine with it, but I’m also not worried about it, because Fiance doesn’t like them.  He wouldn’t agree to go to one.

    Post # 14
    1485 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    No, I am not.

    Post # 15
    46 posts
    • Wedding: January 2011

    I voted that I’m ok with it but no lap dances. My FH asked and so did one of his groomsmen if going to a strip club was allowed. I told him yes, but was very clear on what I would NOT be ok with. I also made sure to tell his friend who will be the one coordinating it. I’m good friends with him and I think they will both be pretty good about sticking to the “rules”. lol, FH doesn’t have to worry about me since I’m not fond of bachlorette parties that include strippers or strip clubs. That’s just me though.

    Post # 16
    6980 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I’m fine with it but my Fiance has never been to one and has no interest. It just skeeves him out and he hates being the center of attention anyways. He wants to go to a casino for his bachelor party ๐Ÿ™‚ 

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