(Closed) Are you out of your SO league?

posted 6 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Are you out of your SO/FI/DH league?
    Yes : (8 votes)
    12 %
    No : (19 votes)
    28 %
    Equal : (41 votes)
    60 %
  • Post # 17
    1896 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    We balance each other out in different ways.

    Post # 18
    739 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    If anything, FH is out of my league!

    Post # 19
    331 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    I love my Fiance and think we are the same but he admits I’m out of his league for many reasons. I feel so bad for him because he know it because guys will hit on me in the middle of a night out with him, even if his arm is around me. It really upsets him but he’s happy he has me even if he did turn me down when I asked him out the first time. 


    Post # 20
    1130 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    @oxstardust421xo:  I used to think that way in the beginning of our relationship. FH is a gym rat and kind of a “pretty boy” (not in a super vain way, he just likes to look good all the time, even at home), and I assumed that if given the chance, he would go for a similar girl. Because I’m not really like that at all, lol.

    I think in the looks department we are out of each other’s leagues but other than that we are pretty much equal.

    Post # 21
    3075 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

    I don’t know… I’m smarter than him in math & grammar though he is more outgoing & junk. Looks, tbh I never found dh physically attractive until after we started dating whereas he’s always been attracted to me / think I can do “better”. Oh, and he is the bread winner or whatnot so…

    Post # 22
    99 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I think we’re pretty equal. I haven’t always thought that but after 6 years I know that we each have strengths and weaknesses and when put together we’re pretty close to perfect for each other. There’s really no way to rate that.

    Post # 23
    255 posts
    Helper bee

    My Fiance is gorgeous, (like one of the best looking men I’ve had the pleasure of knowing) he’s smart and he’s a partner in a family company that is doing pretty well.

    He’s also a good person to the core.

    But I don’t think he’s out of my league.  That’s a depressing way to think about your relationship.  I think I’m a catch, too.

    Post # 24
    4698 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @oxstardust421xo:  If he was out of my league or I was out of his, we likely would have never met.

    What a terrible  way to look at a relationship, its the same as that logic that someone is always the reacher and someone is always the settler. I’m not sure I agree with that..

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