(Closed) Are you staying the night with your fiancé the night before?

posted 7 years ago in Traditions
  • poll: Well?
    We live together and are spending the night together : (114 votes)
    32 %
    We live together and are spending the night apart : (184 votes)
    52 %
    We live separately and are spending the night together : (8 votes)
    2 %
    We live separately and are spending the night apart : (46 votes)
    13 %
  • Post # 32
    906 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    We plan to spend the night sleeping in our bed at our house, then separating after breakfast to get prettified. Financially and logistically it’s the best decision for us.

    Post # 33
    87 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I couldn’t imagine spending the nigth apart before the wedding. We spend the whole morning together on the wedding day. We went diving together, had lunch and then I went to the spa to get ready. Half way through, my groom showed up to the spa, they didn’t know we were getting married to each other, so the girls tried to tuck us away in different corners of the spa but we wanted to be able to wink at each other, lol. It was awesome to flirt before the wedding 🙂

    Post # 34
    1022 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    @aggie2010:  we live together but will be apart the night before. me with my kiddos at the hotel in a suite, and him at home.

    Post # 35
    526 posts
    Busy bee

    @LadyElva:  +1


    It was really relaxing I thought, he calms me down!

    Post # 36
    60 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    We live together but our wedding is in the city where my parents live. Since my sister is my Maid/Matron of Honor we are staying together at our parents house and Fiance is staying with his family too (brother is BM). I feel like his mother will be really happy to have him stay with them and my parents will be getting me and sis up early for hair/makeup etc, so it just works out for us. I honestly wouldn’t mind either way though. It would be kinda fun to stay with him the night before because thats what we normally do! 

    Post # 37
    5272 posts
    Bee Keeper

    We live together and spent the night together in our own bed. I have a hard time sleeping anywhere else and without him and I wanted to make sure I got some good beauty sleep in before the wedding 🙂

    Post # 38
    5063 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    We are staying at the hotel the night before our wedding and for our first night as husband and wife. 

    Post # 39
    8575 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    We live together and will be spending the night together.

    Post # 40
    718 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    We live together and I just don’t sleep well when he’s not around.  I haven’t really decided what I’m doing yet, but I know our place is way closer to the salon where we’ll be getting our hair done.

    Post # 41
    4524 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    We live separately and will get marrived locally, so we will not spend the night together.

    Post # 42
    245 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I have a question for the following ladies who spent the night with their handsome hubbies to be.

    @soy @Wonderstruck @mcgoo @Bebealways @MRSsrm85 @CaliHoya @Pink Asawa @sweetchiquita12 @Soon2BD-CBee @jenilynevette

    How did you avoid having your groom not see you as you got ready if you spent the night together? I wanted to spend the night apart solely for this reason. We are doing a first look and I hoped we’d see each other at that time, after our transformation to bride and groom. I can’t figure out how I can avoid him asking for his socks or for him to be spared seeing me struggle with a crinoline if we share the hotel room.

    Good luck and congrats @aggie2010! You’re so close. Did you decide which way you are going with sleeping arrangements?

    Post # 43
    1130 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @MissPurplePurl:  We’re staying with my parents, and not getting ready there. We are moving from MD to CA and don’t have a place yet (we weren’t planning on moving when we planned the wedding, so we would have been staying with them regardless, then the hotel night of, then going on honeymoon). I’m getting ready at the church and he’ll get ready elsewhere. So, we won’t be around each other day of really until we do a first look.

    Post # 44
    2375 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    We’ve spent the last 3 years living together, and we’re getting two hotel rooms so we can get ready in the AM.  I forsee only one of those rooms being slept in. 

    Post # 46
    2555 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    We live together and I am pretty certain that we will be spending the night together.  We are getting married about 45 minutes away, and depending on our rehearsal night plans, we may be spending the night in the area we are getting married.  In which case it is a waste of money to get two hotel rooms.  My BM’s are all from out of town (except 1) and will be spending the weekend in a hotel with their dates, so I don’t want to crash with them.


    Which is fine.  We’re totally doing a first look, anyway.  🙂

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