(Closed) Are you staying the night with your fiancé the night before?

posted 7 years ago in Traditions
  • poll: Well?
    We live together and are spending the night together : (114 votes)
    32 %
    We live together and are spending the night apart : (184 votes)
    52 %
    We live separately and are spending the night together : (8 votes)
    2 %
    We live separately and are spending the night apart : (46 votes)
    13 %
  • Post # 62
    Member
    1078 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I havn’t totally made up my mind but i kinda wanna be old fashion and not see each other for 24 hours (but i thinking it be more like 20 or 18 b/c he coming and doing our wedding where i live so i dont wanan leave him all alone b4) 

     

    if we do the b&b thing then i think we will have to share a room or he have to share with someone else and he may not be confy with that … i wont put off his comfort for being traditional i want him to be happy and have a wonderful day too 

    Post # 63
    Member
    603 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @aggie2010:  we were going to spend the night apart..but when I thought about it I really dont want to and neither does Fiance..why would I deliberately chose to spend a night away from the love of my life just for traditions sake?…so we are spending it together:) 

    Post # 64
    Member
    444 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I can not think of one single reason why we’d sleep separately the night before our wedding.

    Post # 65
    Member
    472 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    We live together but are spending the night apart.  I’m going to be at my parents and he will be in a hotel with the best man.

    I like the idea of having the anticipation of a night without them and not having them see me all sleepy on the morning of the wedding, but rather looking perfect (hopefully) when walking down the aisle.

     

    Post # 66
    Member
    32 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    We’re spending the night apart, but that’s Mr. Groom’s choice, not mine.  I wanted him to stay with me in the hotel, he prefers to stay the night at his parents’, which is only about half an hour away.  I don’t think that tradition matters – though I still won’t let him see my dress until the ceremony 🙂

    Post # 67
    Member
    32 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    We’re spending the night apart, but that’s Mr. Groom’s choice, not mine.  I wanted him to stay with me in the hotel, he prefers to stay the night at his parents’, which is only about half an hour away.  I don’t think that tradition matters – though I still won’t let him see my dress until the ceremony 🙂

    Post # 68
    Member
    224 posts
    Helper bee

    We will be spending the night together. We have only been appart a few times sense we moved in together. I sleep much better when he is around, And honestly we have never been traditional so why start the night before the wedding.

    Post # 69
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    5063 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    We’re starting in the hotel the night before to have dinner with my bm’s and we’ll stay the night together, have breakfast in the morning together, then us girls will go and ready and Fiance will get ready seperately and then kick off at 2pm! 

    Post # 70
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    1218 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Fiance and I live together and will spend the night together, but get ready separately. I’ll shower and then leave for my parents’ house. I did think about staying apart but it wasn’t easy to organise. I have OCD, so I can’t stay somewhere else if Fiance is in the house or he’ll mess up my routines. He couldn’t stay with his groomsmen because both of his GMs have very young children and it would be too disruptive.

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