(Closed) Are you stressed? Who stresses you out the most?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Who stresses you out?
    Mother (Or Mother figure) : (30 votes)
    32 %
    Fiance : (5 votes)
    5 %
    Future Mother-in-law : (20 votes)
    21 %
    Bridesmaid (s) : (14 votes)
    15 %
    Coordinator : (3 votes)
    3 %
    Future sister/brother-in-law : (5 votes)
    5 %
    Officiate : (4 votes)
    4 %
    Other : (13 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    277 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Definitely my mom.  I had a sit-down chat with her last weekend and told her if she can’t say anything nice about wedding, please say nothing.  LOL.  I feel like reversed parent-child roles

    Post # 4
    Member
    2226 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    Oh, my Future Mother-In-Law, definitely.  She’s added 5 extra people to the final head count in the past week!

    Post # 5
    Member
    988 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    My mom!!!! She hates everything and has an opinion about everything, yet the few things I have asked her to do (since she feels left out) She doesnt do them!!

    Post # 6
    Member
    5670 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    My inlaws. They have made everything about my wedding so stressful. I can’t even tell you how many times I have shed tears over the things that they have done, said, or tried to do to ruin my wedding.

    Post # 7
    Member
    4385 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I said other. The person that stresses me out the most is ME. I stress myself out because I am such a huge worrywart/overthinker. I’ve gotta snap out of it!!

    Post # 8
    Member
    639 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    bridesmaids, future brother(s) in law (groomsmen).  its just one bridesmaid that is stressing me and both brothers are driving me nuts.  but oh well.  it’ll all come out fine in the end.  oh, i also stress myself out. 

    Post # 10
    Member
    11325 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    My mom all the way. Close second to mom/FI combo. My mom wants a much more formal/expensive event than we want… so I’m constantly trying to reign her into our budget. My Fiance wants to spend as little as possible. I usually agree with him, but in areas where I agree with my mom or just don’t care between the two of them… it gets… stressful 🙂 

    Post # 11
    Member
    2859 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

    My mother, my bridesmaids, myself.

    Post # 12
    Member
    1932 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2008

    you left out Future Father-In-Law, future father in law. haha. He has seriously been a big stress to me, with the whole rehearsal dinner thing (I have a thread about it already). 

    Otherwise there have been some awful Bridesmaid or Best Man issues, one would fall under the Future Sister-In-Law, it was not good and really emotional and left me stressed about our very uneven bridal parties for a long time. We both started with four, four BM’s and four GM’s. I lost two, so it was really awful and we had to figure something out.

    Post # 13
    Member
    2015 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2009

    When we were planning, we had a groomsman that stressed us out the most. He turned out to be a more-than-awful friend, and we’ve all since ended our relationship.

    Post # 15
    Member
    1854 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2009

    For me, only two people stressed me: my mom and his mom.
    Oh, and the day of, my best friend was more stressed out than me, which stressed me, haha!

    Post # 16
    Member
    703 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I’m stressing MYSELF out.  I am making myself sick – over money, over picking the right dress, over how I look and how i haven’t lost weight when I’ve had a year to do so, over what people will think of every.little.detail.  I’m afraid that if I don’t think of EVERYTHING no one else will and we’ll miss something or leave something out.  This wedding is all I think about every spare moment of the day. 

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