(Closed) Are you STRESSED yet?!

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
682 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

The only thing that stressed me out was way in the beginning when I asked one of my sisters to be a bridesmaid (purely out of obligation…we do NOT get along for a host of significant things she has done to me over the years including sincerely wishing me dead and telling me she wouldn’t even show up to my funeral…and she said this at 26 years old). She started her crap with me immediately…didn’t like my colors, refused to wear a strapless dress, complaining about what it would cost her to be in the wedding even though my parents were paying for her hotel/airfare and I am paying for hair, makeup and shoes. All she had to get was the dress which wound up being only $75 at Nordstrom on sale. After finally voicing my frustration to her she went ballistic and sent several scathing text messages to me and the rest of my family…called my mother up and made her cry before hanging up in her face, etc.

This is the very, very condensed version of my sister drama and I quickly decided this was the one day I was not going to put up with her crap,  told her it wasn’t going to work out and suggested we go our separate ways. I’m extremely content with us never speaking again, I’m not mad and I’m not sad, I just don’t need someone so crazy in my life, even if we are related.

Smooth sailing since then…nothing has stressed me out since!  Good riddance!

Post # 4
Member
408 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I’m stressed by the fact that the BiG Day is almost 3 months away…YIKES!! Although we’ve selected all vendors except transportation….there is still so much that has to be paid for…when I sleep, all I see are $$$$$…lol

And all those DETAILS I’ve been putting off….ugh!

Post # 5
Member
3252 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Stessing over the passport thing to…evey month I keep saying we’re gonna get em this month and we still don’t have them…ugh!! Oh and the fact that we haven’t put the down payment on the reception venue…which we’ll be doing next week but geesh! Stress!

Post # 6
Member
5921 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I am a little stressed.  I have a little less than a year, and we are now in the process of booking all of our major vendors (doing the ceremony site tomorrow) and gathering the addresses for our 400 person guest list.  So many big decisions, and I want save the dates out in early March.  Haven’t even gotten to the little details yet!

Post # 7
Member
1336 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Oh yeah, the stress has hit.  And even though I have been off for a couple of weeks, work is killing me and is stressing me out, but so are all of the to-do things on our super long list, and details we still need to get to.  But these 2 weeks have also been productive, it feels so great to cross out items on a list! 

Post # 9
Member
1565 posts
Bumble bee

I’m stressed about bills coming up every week and trying to stay within the budget! Oh, and about NEVER having time to plan because I am so so busy with work! 

Post # 10
Member
2397 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I’m stressed with more and more deposits coming due… and the balances that still remain!  Yikes. 

Post # 11
Hostess
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think you will be okay with the passports if you send them off now.  And it would probably be worth paying the expedited fee and keeping track of the progress for them.

I’m currently stressed about money.  My husband should be getting a raise next paycheck which hopefully will make things easier.

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