are you the big or little spoon? [POLL]

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: which spoon are you?!
    big spoon! : (43 votes)
    30 %
    weeeetle spoon! : (75 votes)
    52 %
    i don't spoon : (13 votes)
    9 %
    i'm a mermaid : (14 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 2
    5636 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2014

    catpeaches:  I can’t spoon! LOL! Well, maybe for a bit and then before falling asleep I HAVE to move. I don’t like to be “confined”. Plus there are dogs in the bed usually. Annoying. Hahahahaha!


    Post # 3
    8586 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    We don’t spoon while sleeping, but we cuddle before going to bed. I’m usually the big spoon because he kind of puts all of his weight on me when I’m the little spoon.

    Post # 4
    942 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 1975

    catpeaches:  Such a cute thread! I always like to hear how this goes for many. I find it funny and endearing.

    I’m almost always the Little Spoon. Fall asleep on our right sides. Left legs scrunched up. We actually both just like it that way and always fall right asleep. I think the only time I’ve ever been Big Spoon is when I pass out drunk on his back, hahaha.

    Post # 5
    107 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    We share spoons 🙂

    Post # 6
    2709 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    catpeaches:  We cuddle for a bit before bed (I’m the little spoon) then off to our own side of the bed. My FI is HOT when he sleeps… like on fire… like I’ve had to change my pjs because he sweats so much and I get drentched in his sweat… it’s gross lol.

    Post # 7
    2752 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    He likes to be the big spoon while we cuddle, but if we are going to sleep, I like being the big spoon because there’s something really comfortable about sleeping up against his back. Like someone else said, I can also move around easier if I get uncomfortable. 

    Post # 8
    1092 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    catpeaches:  It doesn’t sound horrible at all! I’m the same way. Totally the big spoon! 

    I hate to sleep-cuddle. I need my own space to toss and roll around when I’m sleeping! I get to cuddle DH as much as I want, then I get to go sleep on my own side lol

    • This reply was modified 2 years, 11 months ago by  MadameHibou.
    Post # 9
    584 posts
    Busy bee

    I said I was a mermaid because we switch depending on which side either of us wants to be laying on since we sleep on the same sides of the bed every night.

    Post # 10
    178 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2016

    My hubby says it’s weird for him to be the little spoon because I’m so tiny LOL. It works out well because I prefer to be the little spoon as well. I find that I can’t get as comfortable if I’m the big spoon because my arms don’t go all the way around him and I like to “wrap” or be wrapped and since I can’t wrap him, it has to be the other way around. 😉

    Post # 11
    1671 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - Church

    Little spoon because he is about a foot taller than me!

    Post # 12
    6 posts
    • Wedding: October 2016

    I love being big spoon! This post made me smile.

    Post # 13
    17 posts

    i used to be the little spoon. But these days, I’m just covered in cats. Hubby moves a lot in his sleep and he doesn’t sleep cuddle 🙂

    • This reply was modified 2 years, 11 months ago by  mistymason.
    Post # 14
    139 posts
    Blushing bee

    I have little T-Rex arms and can’t reach around his big shoulders if I’m the big spoon so it’s little for me! 

    Post # 15
    1329 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2015 - Mount Hermon

    I’m almost always the little spoon. FI is almost a foot taller than me and very broad shouldered so I can barely get my arms around him.

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