(Closed) Are your making your bridesmaids wear their hair in a certain style?

posted 7 years ago in Beauty
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I am letting them do whatever they want! They have short to long hair and thick to thin so I dont think i could find one style that would work on everyone.

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Whatever they want, really. We’re having someone do our hair so I can’t imagine any of them looking bad.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Here is my theory on the whole bridesmaid’s thing.   I’ve given them a fabric and dress maker and they decide the style.  I feel like hair, accessories, and shoes are so personal.  I’ve told them that they are representing me by being up there.  After that, they are representing themselves!  I have sexy, stylish friends so I’m not worried ;o)

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Cedar Lake Cellars

I’m letting them pick.  I don’t know what looks best on them and I want them to feel confident.  I certainly don’t want to make them look bad to make me look better.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

No. I would hate if someone told me what to do with my hair, so I didn’t do that to my girls. I told them to choose whatever they liked best. I figured making them wear a dress of my choosing and picking the color of their shoes was controlling enough 😛

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

They can do whatever they want with there hair.  I got them each a little flower clip to wear in it, so we can incorporate that into whatever style they choose.  I don’t need them to look that much alike!

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m definitely letting them choose a hairstyle. If I had friends who might go a little too crazy with it I might make suggestions, but I’m not worried about it. I want  my friends to feel comfortable and beautiful on my wedding day as well! The only thing I am asking is that it doesn’t look like mine Smile

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I will have someone at our room to do our hair and makeup, so they can request whatever they want. 🙂

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Nope! I’m also not a huge fan of telling my BMs exactly what to do. Plus, they all have different hair textures, lengths, etc.

I trust they’ll all look stunning when they stand with me.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m not picky. I want them all to be comfortable, so they can do what ever they want with their hair.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

No, I’ll be happy with whatever they would like and whatever will make them feel good.  I don’t like matchy-matchy stuff anyways – they’re wearing different dresses, why make them have the same hair?

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Pippin Hill Farm & Vineyards

As long as they are happy, I’ll be happy.  They aren’t wearing the same dress, so there’s no need for them to have the same hair.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

They can do whatever they want with their hair. The same hairstyles can look so different on other people. Not that I have any desire for them to have all the same hair. Same dress is as far as I’m going.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee

I let them choose their hairstyle. I wanted them all to look like them and not matching robots… creepy.

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