(Closed) Are/Did you sleep next to FI on the night before the wedding??

posted 8 years ago in Logistics
  • poll: Are you sleeping next to your FH on the night before your wedding?
    No way, I'm sticking to tradition : (76 votes)
    60 %
    Yeah, screw the tradtion : (45 votes)
    36 %
    other explain below : (5 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
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    6830 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I don’t plan on it. Our wedding is in my hometown The night before the wedding he will be in the hotel room and I will be staying at my parents house.

    Post # 3
    Member
    543 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    I personally I’m staying with Fiance the night before. I wouldn’t be able to sleep without him and wouldn’t look as great on the big day, but that’s just me.

    Post # 4
    Member
    610 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I agree with ama0219. I will to be sleeping with my fiance the night before. I have trouble sleeping when he’s not next to me. He just makes me feel safe.

    Post # 5
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    5572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I’m spending the night at my parents’ house. Fiance will either be staying at our house or at a hotel in town. I would be fine with us staying together…I sleep better with Fiance…but he wants to stick to the tradition!
    I’m glad it will give me some extra time with my sisters though 🙂

    Post # 6
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    8738 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I’m going to be sharing a room with my sister (MOH) and 2 bridesmaids.

    Fiance will be sharing a room with his brother (BM) and a groomsman or two.

    Post # 9
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    1537 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    We’re getting married at a resort in Mexico and will have stayed in our room together 3 nights before the “pre-wedding night,” yet my man still wants to stick with tradition. At first I thought it was silly because we’ll have settled in and unpacked, but now I think it is a sweet sentiment. My younger cousin (who is my MOH) will be coming to sleep in my suite with me the night before so we can have a “sleep over party” with the other BMS. I think it will definitely help me to unwind and prep for the big day. I won’t see my man until I walk down the aisle at 4:00pm the next day!!

    Post # 10
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    5921 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    We stayed apart.  He stayed at his best man’s house, and I stayed at our apartment.  If I could do it again, I would have gotten us a hotel room together – I had WAY too many people in my one bedroom apartment – my mom, sister, cousin, and 2 neices.  I didn’t sleep at all.

    Post # 11
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    115 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I wouldn’t! And just because you wont be with him that night, doesn’t mean you wont get to see him that day, or night for that matter! Send him home to where he is so tired it wont matter whether you slept next to him or not 😛
    All my BM’s are from out of state and are getting in on the 8th and my wedding is the 12th. Fiance and I have been sharing an apartment, but I will be kicking him out once they arrive! I don’t plan on seeing Fiance until the rehersal dinner for a few hours then the wedding day 😉 It is a good time to spend with the girls and make it more surprising for when he finally sees you!

    Post # 14
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    2792 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    We’re definitely sleeping next to each other the night before. I know that I’m going to be so nervous and freaked out about the whole thing, so why wouldn’t I want the one person who knows how to calm me down and comfort me next to me that night?

    Post # 15
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    334 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Normally, I’d say stay with your BMs, but it’s his birthday!  Wouldn’t you want to spend the night with him on your birthday?  Try to put yourself in his position – it’s sweet that he wants to spend the night with you instead of partying with his groomsmen. 

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