(Closed) Argh.. so frustrated

posted 6 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper

I think once people become a couple, they forget that they are also INDIVIDUALS! 

It’s okay to do things “alone”…..

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Woodstock:  I haven’t run across that issue as most of my friends are either single or do not at all mind doing things without their SOs. I can definitely see how that would get annoying though, especially if it is every time you want to hang out with them.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - New York Botanical Garden

I totally feel you, and Mr. HC and I definitely do things without one another (even travel a bit) and it’s totally fine, and I happen to very independent, but I will say this – Mr. HC works an insane amount of time as a surgery resident and often spends nights or weekend days at the hospital – with precious little time together, it’s hard to sometimes choose to leave him alone at home and go do something on the occasion that he is out early, etc.  It turns out that I have a lot of flexibility to do things on my own since he does work, but it definitely makes me strongly consider making plans when he is around, if he is not included.  Just a thought!

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@hermitcrab:  I agree with you.

Darling Husband has a very busy work schedule so when he is home/around I do like to try and spend time with him. But in his less busy time we can very easy do our own things on certain nights. 

Could it be that these friends have SOs with really busy schedules? And they otherwise wouldn’t be able to spend very much time with them but for inviting them along to “girls outings”?

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

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