(Closed) Arguing with your SO

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Should fights with your SO be over...
    "real" issues : (26 votes)
    57 %
    silly misunderstandings that escalate further than they should : (20 votes)
    43 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5011 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Usually if you’re arguing about something silly it’s because there’s a real underlying cause.

    We had a big argument last night and ended up being awake past 4am. It needs to happen every now and again to release pressure.

    Post # 4
    Member
    4893 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2018

    Something dumb, definitely. I’m so glad we don’t have any real issues to argue about.

    Post # 7
    Member
    5011 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Admittedly, our arguments are usually me ranting and him apologising then me apologising and starting the rant over again.

    Post # 8
    Member
    1289 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Darling Husband and I argue a lot! I think it depends on your personality.  He never argued with his EXs.  Yhey were all pretty WASPy and were passive agressive, where as I don’t hide anything and am pretty assertive! We deal with every little issue that comes up! We appreciate that type of communication, where as not everyone does!

    Post # 9
    Member
    1719 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @MrsWBS:  I was just thinking to myself how crazy I was be sweating this silly argument until I found your post.  Darling Husband and I don’t argue much but this one silly argument seems to manifest itself this past week.  Darling Husband argues like your SO; he is quick to get mad and retreat.  But because he reacted so poorly, I ended up acting as badly, too.  Ugh.  I’m glad I’m not alone! 

    Post # 10
    Hostess
    2556 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    My Fiance and I very rarely argue.  Sometimes we get in those sillt fights and they make me so angry.  Mainly because we are both very stubborn and vocal and something stupid (running 5 minutes behind schedule) can turn into a shout fest.  If I’m going to fight, I’d rather it be over something real that didn’t leave me so angry that we were fighting in the first place.

    Post # 11
    Member
    2422 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    We very rarely argue. We sometimes do bicker about little things, but we’ve never realy had a big fight about anything serious. But when the time comes, we will have learned how to better communicate to each other due to our little practice runs haha

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