(Closed) As a BM which would you prefer?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Which do you like best?
    Salon : (31 votes)
    26 %
    House/Hotel : (86 votes)
    72 %
    Other - Please Explain : (3 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    3025 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

    I’ve done both. The house is more intimate, but I would be happy either way.

    Post # 4
    239 posts
    Helper bee

    i think if you could get a few people to come to your house/hotel then that would be fun but the salon may be the better option.  to be able to do more than one person at a time is a huge advantage.  you can make the salon a fun little adventure by bringing in breakfast (muffins, fruit, juice, coffee, water) and mimosas.  it’s nice to spread the cheer and happiness of the wedding with others not involved in it. 

    Post # 5
    957 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    As a Bridesmaid or Best Man I wouldn’t care either way, but I don’t think that as a bride I want to be running from one place to the next all day. I would rather set up shop in one spot and have everything done there. We chose my parents house as the lighting is perfect and they have 3.5 bathrooms.

    Post # 6
    1475 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I had 4 Bridesmaid or Best Man, flower girl and 3 mothers. We had 2 stylists come to us and it was great. We didn’t have to worry about transportation or being anywhere. We just relaxed, drank memosas and got ready together.

    Post # 7
    1420 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

    I’m the bride in this scenario, and also have 5 BMs + my mother getting her hair done.  I chose to pay for them to come to us.  I believe it will save a lot of time and stress from needing to travel around.  

    Post # 8
    9139 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

    So long as I don’t have to pay for it I will be happy with whatever is provided for me.

    Post # 9
    61 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    Does everyone know where the salon is? Also, how far away is it from where you’ll be getting dressed? For me, all my bridesmaids are from out of town and unfamiliar with roads/traffic patterns/etc. Plus, the salon is outside of the downtown area where we are having the ceremony.  In order to simplify everything (and so that I don’t panic if on the morning of the wedding there is crazy traffic or road work or anything), I’m having the stylists come to the hotel for me and my BMs.


    Post # 10
    1231 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    If I were a Bridesmaid or Best Man, I would vote for house. But I really don’t think it’s a big deal.

    Post # 11
    11657 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @beeintraining:  I’m debating this myself.  My sister actually works in a salon and she said that while you will get good service having someone come to you, and there are people who specialize in this, you will generally have a better result at the salon.  They have everything they could possibly need there and they have the correct setup.

    Post # 12
    23597 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I would prefer house/hotel but agree it’s not a huge deal whatever you choose!

    Post # 13
    322 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2014 - Restaurant

    Whatever was easiest and the least stressful for the bride.

    Post # 14
    1603 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    @beeintraining:  I was a Bridesmaid or Best Man this year and we all went to the salon. It was pretty much a disaster, they barely got us out in time, and we were all almost late for the ceremony! So definitely give yourselves plenty of time and be VERY clear with the salon about your expectations.

    Our bride booked everything and was told we were getting our hair washed and then styled, but the stylists themselves thought we were just getting a style. So one Bridesmaid or Best Man ended up with black powder in her hair because she hadnt washed it, and it got all over her face and hands. I had showered but blown out and flat ironed my hair for the day, assuming they were going to wash it like I was told. So the girl tried to do my hair, it wouldnt hold, then had to WASH my hair and restyle, she put all this gross holding gel in it.. blech. This was at a popular and reputable salon too! So I think personally it might be better to have one or two stylists you know and trust do everyones hair, even if it technically takes longer.

    Post # 15
    686 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @beeintraining:  Both of my sisters got married in the same year and my oldest sister booked appointments at a bridal salon which was okay, but my other sister had a stylist coem to the hotel room and she did hair, it was much easier to have someone come to the hotel, we were all standing around a salon in everyones way .. I prefer the hotel/home 

    Post # 16
    176 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I’ve been a Bridesmaid or Best Man several times and I have done both. I prefer having the stylist come to the house/hotel as it’s more relaxing, and as others have said, no need to worry about transportation.

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