- 4 years ago
- Wedding: March 2016
Just curious if you all asked your bridesmaids to be in your wedding around the same time, or waited a while for some, but not others??
I’ve already asked my Maid/Matron of Honor, and I know for sure I’d like another best friend of mine from high school who lives out of area to be in the wedding. My current group of girlfriends right now that I’ve been hanging together with for the past 5-6 years are my main bestie (MOH), another really close friend (let’s say Friend A), and the girl who I’ve been sort of keeping at arms length for various reasons (friend B). I would LOVE friend A to be in wedding as well because she’s a great friend of mine and an awesome person to be around who I know will be a great help as far as bridesmaids duties are concerned. Friend B can be a bit attention needy and a MAJOR drama queen (which explains why I’ve been kind of keeping my distance lately). However, I can’t imagine asking Maid/Matron of Honor & Friend A, but then not having friend B in it, just because we’ve always done so much together in the past.
SO, I was wondering would it be weird if I asked my other friend of mine who lives out of area, and get her in place, and then hold off on asking A&B for a while?? I’d LOVE to ask everyone within the next month or so jsut for excitement purposes, but I honestly want to “wait and see” with Friend B. By The Way, wedding is Nov 2015, so I do have a bit of time.
I realize this all sounds SO petty, and the whole thing makes me want to say EFF IT and just have a MOH, but my Fiance already has quite a few close friends that he said he wants to be his groomsman.
I would say just replace friend a&b with family but both of our families are SO big that there would be definite feelings hurt if we picked like 1 cousin and not the other or 1 sister and not other, etc etc…. So we both agreed we would just do our close friends.
Thank you for reading this. I hope it makes sense!!