Post # 16
Thank you that is very helpful. I’m going to go with the concensus here and ask her in person. Let her know that i’d love it if she would be a Bridesmaid or Best Man, even if she was preggo! As long as she was there. She can sit, stand, whatever, just be there and support us! 🙂 If not, I completely understand.
Post # 17
OKay thanks for the advice. It’ll make us both feel better that I actually asked, then if I didn’t 🙂
Post # 18
of course you ask her. If she’s pregnant…who cares. She isn’t yet either…so what if you don’t ask her and she doesn’t get pregnant? If timing happens in such a way that she can’t be there because she’s too busy bringing new life into the world, then that just means you all have one more big thing to celebrate. That’s only a decision she can make in the moment and no bride can pull a ‘zilla’ card on a mommy to be. If you’re concerned about spending money on gifts for the girls you want to ask… stop worrying. Only spend what’s in your budget, and honestly, I don’t think I’ve ever heard of someone declining a bridesmaid invitation unless they were already committed to another wedding.