(Closed) Ask her to be a bridesmaid… or don't ask?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 18
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Helper bee

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lauren2on:  of course you ask her.  If she’s pregnant…who cares.  She isn’t yet either…so what if you don’t ask her and she doesn’t get pregnant?   If timing happens in such a way that she can’t be there because she’s too busy bringing new life into the world, then that just means you all have one more big thing to celebrate.  That’s only a decision she can make in the moment and no bride can pull a ‘zilla’ card on a mommy to be.  If you’re concerned about spending money on gifts for the girls you want to ask… stop worrying.  Only spend what’s in your budget, and honestly, I don’t think I’ve ever heard of someone declining a bridesmaid invitation unless they were already committed to another wedding.  

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