(Closed) Asked to throw bridal shower- don't know bride

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 61
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532 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

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loneranger13:  you’ve already told her you have plans, I would ignore the second message. If you feel you must reply, just repeat yourself. You’re not even invited to her wedding, but you’re expected to throw a shower?!! Not a chance

Post # 62
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2477 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - St Peter\'s Church, East Maitland, and Bella Vista, Newcastle

Whoa.  Sounds like nobody has ever said NO to this girl before, talk about acting entitled.  You’ve done nothing wrong (and handled it graciously) and she has done everything wrong.  I’d be interested to know if the wedding is still happening….

Post # 63
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532 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Just read your update OP! That bride is lucky you handled that episode so calmly. Not sure I would have. She’s got a whole lot of nerve. Good luck to that groom if he marries her.

Post # 64
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Worker bee

Woowwwwww…..I felt like I just watched an episode of bridezillas after reading your update….that took a SERIOUS turn! 

Let me repeat what everyone else said, you have absolutely no reason to feel bad! Let me repeat, NONE!!!!!! This girl is obviously very immature and entitled, for the fact that she not only expected you to do this for her but then lied about what happened when you said no so that others would view you in a negative light. You were very polite in how you dealt with her (kudos to that, because I would have told her some choice words personally). She made her bed and now she has to lie in it. You didnt ruin her bridal experience, you didnt ruin her relationship, you didnt ruin anything….SHE DID!!! Please dont feel bad that this spoilt brat got called out on her nonsense! She needed a reality check, the sun doesnt rise and shine on her behind!!! 

Post # 65
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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loneranger13:  Wow, just wow. ((((Hugs)))) to you. I echo everyone else that you’ve done nothing wrong. And best wishes to your older brother too!

Post # 66
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13964 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I would not have deleted those messages. You may have to provide documentation at some point for a restraining order. If you can pull them out of the trash, I would.

She sounds mentally ill.  

Post # 67
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

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loneranger13:  she brought it entirely on herself. She’s crazy actually. Really and truly crazy. You handled it extremely well. Try not to give it another thought. 

Post # 68
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Busy bee

Wow that’s the most ridiculous thing I’be ever heard !! Don’t feel bad at all, that girl is out of control. 

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